so from what ive read on here- size isnt everything, the flacid size of a penis has little to do with the erect size.
but my problem is i have a normal size penis, i think, 5-6 inches. but my "package" doesnt look big at all. like ill look at all these dudes i go to school with, then i look at mine. im talkin just how the jeans display it. and i look like nothin. its really discourging. ive went through fazes where i would use a sock to make it look halfway normal size, but that only leads to problems (when dancing and grinding).
i know there arent many things men can do about size, but id just like to know if there are any "solutions" to this size problem. id guess to just deal with it. but im pretty sure alot of women judge the man on the package when they check him out.
i dunno, any information someone can divulge would be great... for instance dudes with the same issue, chicks and their thoughts/experiences.
thanks yall.
What are you worried about? It works doesn't it? And 5-6 inches sounds perfectly normal. You are concerned over nothing. I really don't think women are concerned about seeing a bulge in your jeans.
well shaving tends to make it look a lil better.... but thats only gonna show if the girl sees ya naked....
Please DON'T shave. No one needs to look like they're prepubescent. Thank you. 5 to 6 inches is normal. When wearing jeans, women look at your ass, got that? We also look at your shoulders and your tummy. But the biggest thing we're looking for is standing up straight and moving with confidence. I recommend forgetting football - go for the wrestling team! Developes the shoulders and your confidence - and -Just think how useful wrestling will be later on.
well if women are looking at the ass... sorry, i have none... but i got a nice stomach and broad shoulders...
time for some butt implants... or do squats
Of course you have a donkey, I mean arse (sorry, I'm Australian, remember).
A person's penis tends to look shorter when the owner looks down upon it, rather than looking at it from a profile view. This is apparently an optical elusion so you might check things out by posing sideways in front of a mirror.
The important thing to understand about a penis is that it need only be long enough for a woman to adequately grasp. Women consider a penis to be a combination throttle and brake over which she has complete control over the speed and intensity of his arousal. What is also important is that her lover be knowledgeable, skilled, caring and compassionate. In short, that he knows how to use what God gave him. Size does matter to some extent in that women also enjoy having a sense of fullness when it is inside the vagina. That said, the normal size for a penis is a range, not an inch mark on a ruler. Some races have significantly larger penises and some have rather short ones compared to the average Cauccasian. So, as long as it works, enjoy the bennies.
Hmm, I've never thought of my penis as a combination throttle and brake before.
im not sure what u mean by throttle and brake? like big enough to have her hand on it with extra room?
Well, I'm not sure I'd want her to throttle it, and I certainly wouldn't want her to break it.
> im not sure what u mean by throttle and brake?
What I meant by throttle and brake is that by having a grasp upon her lover's penis she has direct control over the speed of his arousal, any delaying tactics (braking action) that she want to use to perhaps tease and titillate his excitement and anticipation. She therefore controls the both the script of how they make love and to some extent the duration of time spent doing it. Many women report that these actions are important to them and because they are, penis size or appearance are secondary which confounds many a guy.
not trying to make this mroe complicated. but ur basically saying is that she can grab onto it right?
What I am trying to say is that while guys are often quite concerned about the size of their penis and of being "adequate", what matters most to women is that it only be long enough for her to grasp {that is grab onto). If she can encircle it with her fingers then she the size is plenty big enough for her to work her "magic" in order to build your level of arousal (fast, faster, or slowly, or to put the brakes on and pause the proceedings teasing you a bit.
gotcha doc. i knew what u were sayin.
but i gotta say, after looking at a bunch of the posts on these boards. you spend a lot of timing answering the same type of questions over and over. i gotta give you props for that. as long as people keep getting informed, its all right, right?