It was my first time having sex and there was a little bit of blood. is this normal to happen? when the hymen is broken into, it cauzes to bleed? even when i went to pee in the bathroom after i saw blood in the toilet. 
but the next day i had sex there was no bleeding. so im assuming becauze i was a virgin and bleeding is expected for first time???
Fri, 08/19/2005 - 23:07
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fist time bleeding normal?
I think there is "stuff" that cums out before ejaculation that can also get you pregnant. forgot what they call it. as far as finding a gyn, usually insurance companies let you have a gyn without a referral. Just call your insurance and ask. If you dont have insurance maybe talk to planned parenthood or local health clinic. Do it sooner rather than later. k?
Thankyou for your advice, u are exactly right in always using a condom and i will always in the future to be safe and im not at all ready to even have kids at this time in my life . I am a college student and a late bloomer LOL. would a doctor have to refer me to a gyn? or maybe i have to look them up? Im thinking of going on the pill, because i really dont trust condoms alone in preventing pregnancy, i mean i always hear of them having a hole or breaking. This is a very embarrasing for me to ask but i have to know... well say a couple is having sex and the male pulls out before he ejaculates, would there still be a risk of pregnancy? so if a couple is having sex without a condom, the only way to be pregnant is if he ejaculates inside the female right? or am i wrong?
thanks!
First dont believe everything someone tells you. When I was young it dawned on me everyone he had been with I had been with now too. So you need to watch out for you and protect you, and if doesnt want to wear a condom I would say to then we cant have sex. Life is to short and if you are under the age of 20, its not worth making a mistake. You are gonna be the one pregnant and have to grow a baby inside your body, or have to make a decision of whether to keep it or have an abortion. That is a huge responsibility to put on someone just cuz you dont think it feels the same. I would go to a gyn if it were me. They know all about the different kinds of pills, etc.. Go to a woman gyn. Me personally I hated the Depo shot, that will make you gain wait and it can cause acne.
Sex is great, but a few minutes of pleasure is not worth your future. Think about yourself. Are you in high school or college? Just asking you dont have to answer if you dont want to.
no i dont have a gyn. but i will make an appt. with the doctor for info on the pill. should i specifically seek out a gyn? or just go to the doctor clinic? my boyfriend says next time he does not want to use a condom because its not the same feeling and he does not feel comfortable and he says that he was already checked at the doctor and was cleared of anything, and he even offered me to come with him for another check just to prove to me that he is clear of everything. of course i will make him use the condom to reduce the risk of pregnacy and std's. but do u think couples that end up being in a really long term relationship only use the pill and no condom? And he tells me he only had 1 partner long term.
yes, im not on the pill but we used a condom for contreceptive. I've always used tampons so im a little surprised with the bleeding. anyways i want to go on the pill because im just terrified of the condom breaking and pregnancy occuring. so do u think if i go on the pill if will be effective immediately??? Im a liitle concerned also with the pill because i hear u gain weight tremendesly, or maybe im wrong??
thanks!
I think a Penis goes in further than a tampon, but I am not a doctor so I couldnt be for sure. They do make really low hormone birth control pills. But i do think the pill takes at least one full month to be effective. Then I may still use a condom just to be safer and safe from std's... Do you have a gyn?
I think that is normal, hope you were being safe?