I hope you don't mind a mans response. A bullet is a very good starting point. Especially if she has orgasms from clitoris stimulation. My wife has one with twin bullets and has already almost jerked the wires out of one of them. If you can find one with twin bullets, it will be a plus for both of you. Not only can you give her an orgasm with one, she can stimulate you with the other one. My wife likes holding one on her clit and the other one on my dick while I am inside her. It sends vibrations everywhere like that.
There are some made that are waterproof. You will just have to search on the web until you find something you want to try. Or go to your local shop and look there.
I hope you don't mind a mans response. A bullet is a very good starting point. Especially if she has orgasms from clitoris stimulation. My wife has one with twin bullets and has already almost jerked the wires out of one of them. If you can find one with twin bullets, it will be a plus for both of you. Not only can you give her an orgasm with one, she can stimulate you with the other one. My wife likes holding one on her clit and the other one on my dick while I am inside her. It sends vibrations everywhere like that.
Not at all. Anyone's perspective is good.
I had a thought about these bullets. Are they safe to use in or under water (say if she wants to use it in the shower/bath)?
There are some made that are waterproof. You will just have to search on the web until you find something you want to try. Or go to your local shop and look there.
Any brands to recommend that are decently priced, work well and don't die quickly?
I honestly have no idea. You would do better than me, by talking to the ladies here on that one.