However is easiest really depends on how your and your partner's bodies move. Yes, generally missionary is the best for those next to sex, it is basic. You'll have to see for yourself. Enjoy, but use caution.
Personally, i would , it is more traditional and then i would try for the sexy kinky poses after that:) But that is my personal opinion.. imean you don't want to be the first time to have the person behind you not looking at you the whole time.. just have fun with it and do it the way you are confortable with and you like
Thanks guys!
We tried several times and everything is allright till it comes to getting in. Then it goes soft, a quick loss of erection. Lots of foreplay, oral sex and all sorts of teasing is present, but something happens when i put on the condom.....maybe i'm subcosciously nervous. I decided to take a rest and get really horny and then try again...
We are trying the missionary way so i thought that maybe there might be some better position or something.....
We are both virgins.
Is anything wrong with me or do i just need a rest?
For some new ideas, check out the site's info on positions. Here is a link: Positions
For advice on erection problems, check out this thread: Erection Trouble 101
Ochnos, you talked about getting soft right when you were about to go in? And you were wearing a condom? yea, don't worry about that at all. It actually happened to my boyfriend the first time too. We were both virgins as well, so it's probably just nervousness. Just calm down and go for it! That stuff always works out in the end. Good luck!
The first time my b/f and I had sex, we did it in the missionary position. I wanted it that way. For me, it was my way of giving myself to him (I was a virgin), and I wanted him to know that because I love him. Since then, we have tried new postions, some I like, some I don't--anyway, the point is that everytime we make love in the missionary position, for me its like giving myself to him over and over again. And even though I really like the "doggy stlye" position (which i get the most physical pleasure from because of the deep penetration) the missionary position will always be my favorite...and my favorite way of saying "I love you."
All is so much better now. We finally got properly adjusted and it works. There are some condoms which can really turn you off the second you put them on especially when you are a beginner, like i am (and with little worries, which ofcourse is normal...you have the feeling that you'll never get it right) I really seem to be into Lifestyles ultra-thin condoms. They feel really good on the penis. As if you ain't wearing one, and i find that very comfortable.
Btw yesterday i had a great oral sex session with my gf. Actually one of the best so far. She was really great. I wasn't as easily a "quickie" as i usually am when it comes to finishing and it took us like an hour and something for me to cum. Simply great!
But there is one thing which is bothering me a little bit. My penis skin was sort of like bloated in the area of the head after that. This morning its better but still looks and feels a bit strange.
This seems normal to me, since you've had an erect penis for a long time and some temporary changes have taken place with the skin. That's my explanation....but i don't know i feel like asking, has it happened to any of you guys? Does the penis get used or does it happen always in longer intercourses and oral sex?
Thanks in advance!
Greetz,
Ochnos
(some great sex to come tomorrow hope i'll be okay by then)
However is easiest really depends on how your and your partner's bodies move. Yes, generally missionary is the best for those next to sex, it is basic. You'll have to see for yourself. Enjoy, but use caution.
Personally, i would , it is more traditional and then i would try for the sexy kinky poses after that:) But that is my personal opinion.. imean you don't want to be the first time to have the person behind you not looking at you the whole time.. just have fun with it and do it the way you are confortable with and you like
Thanks guys!
We tried several times and everything is allright till it comes to getting in. Then it goes soft, a quick loss of erection. Lots of foreplay, oral sex and all sorts of teasing is present, but something happens when i put on the condom.....maybe i'm subcosciously nervous. I decided to take a rest and get really horny and then try again...
We are trying the missionary way so i thought that maybe there might be some better position or something.....
We are both virgins.
Is anything wrong with me or do i just need a rest?
For some new ideas, check out the site's info on positions. Here is a link:
Positions
For advice on erection problems, check out this thread:
Erection Trouble 101
Just keep experimenting... you will get it
Ochnos, you talked about getting soft right when you were about to go in? And you were wearing a condom? yea, don't worry about that at all. It actually happened to my boyfriend the first time too. We were both virgins as well, so it's probably just nervousness. Just calm down and go for it! That stuff always works out in the end. Good luck!
missonary and doggystyle are the greatest for both parties
The first time my b/f and I had sex, we did it in the missionary position. I wanted it that way. For me, it was my way of giving myself to him (I was a virgin), and I wanted him to know that because I love him. Since then, we have tried new postions, some I like, some I don't--anyway, the point is that everytime we make love in the missionary position, for me its like giving myself to him over and over again. And even though I really like the "doggy stlye" position (which i get the most physical pleasure from because of the deep penetration) the missionary position will always be my favorite...and my favorite way of saying "I love you."
Hiya everyone,
All is so much better now. We finally got properly adjusted
and it works. There are some condoms which can really turn you off the second you put them on especially when you are a beginner, like i am (and with little worries, which ofcourse is normal...you have the feeling that you'll never get it right) I really seem to be into Lifestyles ultra-thin condoms. They feel really good on the penis. As if you ain't wearing one, and i find that very comfortable.
hope i'll be okay by then) 
Btw yesterday i had a great oral sex session with my gf. Actually one of the best so far. She was really great. I wasn't as easily a "quickie" as i usually am when it comes to finishing and it took us like an hour and something for me to cum. Simply great!
But there is one thing which is bothering me a little bit. My penis skin was sort of like bloated in the area of the head after that. This morning its better but still looks and feels a bit strange.
This seems normal to me, since you've had an erect penis for a long time and some temporary changes have taken place with the skin. That's my explanation....but i don't know i feel like asking, has it happened to any of you guys? Does the penis get used or does it happen always in longer intercourses and oral sex?
Thanks in advance!
Greetz,
Ochnos
(some great sex to come tomorrow
Ask your girlfriend to put the condom on for you, that way you are still getting excited while the condom is going on.