What is the next step you want to go to?

This is what is important to know: the girl/woman sets the limits or boundary for how far she and ultimately they will go with necking, petting, foreplay. At any time she can extend the limit--or not. So, how is a guy to know?

The technique used is called "Implied Consent". It means that consent is implied or given without necessarily being expressed verbally, although it certainly can be. So you make out until she says enough, stop, or that's far enough, etc., or you reach the limit she told you. This is her boundary and your limit for how far to go. Within this range the two of you can play and express yourself and your love.

If and when she feels more comfortable with herself, you, your relationship, and your level of intimacy, she can extend the limit. How will you know? By going to the previous limit and finding that she is not stopping you from trying to go further. And, so it goes.

As for intercourse, I believe this is a matter for discussion long before you decide to do it. It should be preplanned and agreed upon, jointly.

Now, if your question is how do I have sex with her be it oral or intercourse, then being your first time, I think you are trying to place the cart before the horse. You need to back up, and prepare each of you for this, physically as well as emotionally. You need to spend a few months making out and building a relationship both emotionally and physically. When you make out, you start off slowly and gently and over time increase the level and intensity of intimacy.

well sex is a really big step for two people, i think before going all the way you should get to know eachothers body and after that everything else will fall in place

how to bring it up if you two are ready then it will be easer to bring it up just talk to her tell her how you feel