Hey guys, My name is Ryan, Im new to this site and I have a possible problem. uh...this is hard for me to say, so, please bare with me. Recently I had my first oral sex and sexual intercourse experience. I think i may have RE. Since my girlfriend gave me oral sex I couldn't "finish" and she was..doing that for awhile, nearly an hour. Although I'll admit i was very nervous...and she didnt really make the experience..."pleasureable", but thats my opinion. I thought it was nothnig, but then a little while later i had sex, I didnt really finish, threw sex anyway, i did another, but thats another story. I dont kno if i have RE or not, Or if its something else. Me and my girlfriend broke up, and I only did it once. So i cant try to see if this problem will happen again. :(, if someone out there could help me I would be more then grateful, really, I would. Thank you if u read this, hope to find some answer
-Ryan
With retrograde ejaculation you will experience orgasm. The difference is that the ejaculate will be diverted up into your bladder rather than expelled through your urethra.
Do not overcomplicate this. It is not uncommon for neginners to not quite get there.
you are right - you were nervous, that's all to it.
my boyfriend doesn't come as soon as I start pleasing him orally, and he doesn't have to really 'cos it is still sex and if he is enjoying it i am happy for him to enjoy it for an hour or longer. if anything he says it allows him to practice controlling his ejaculation so then he can last longer when we have sex.
if your girlfriend had stuck around and you guys talked about it you could have come to some kind of understanding. 'cos you don't have to "come" when she is performing a fellatio or a handjob on you, it could be a foreplay followed by an intercourse. if it happens to you again, i would suggest you give a girl some encouragement and suggestions of how you would like her to pleasure you. it is possible that lack of pleasure for you this time was due to the fact that the girl probably didn't even know if she was doing you right or not...and was too embarrassed to stick around.