me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex, both up for it but im curious about the pain bit. i have heard it can hurt a little from people and sites but can someone can tell the amount of hurt? quick? long? im a small girl, does size matter of the girl when it comes to sex? i mean is it easier to have sex and less pain with taller girls? or all the same??
Sun, 01/07/2007 - 22:25
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first time pains?
I suggest reading "Am I Ready For Sex" in the Sex" in the SEXUAL HEALTH: WOMEN forum.
First time intercourse may or may not have some discomfort or pain associated with it. Much depends upon the construction of the hymen, whether it is intact or not, and, a person's tolerence for pain.
A person's height should not be a big deal; although having said that, there might possibly be a mismatch between partners of very different statures that the two people will have to work out position-wise. This should not have an impact on whether or not first intercourse and penetration will be uncomfortable from a purely physical standpoint.