me and my girl friend are planing on having sex for the first time soon we will be losing it to each other. she says she dosnt want to do any forplay she just wants me to go straight in her, what should i do about it? cause if we dont do nothing first wont it really hurt her?
Wed, 09/15/2004 - 18:56
#1
First time, no foreplay
What? No foreplay? Maybe she wants to be disappointed with the whole experience... seems strange to me.
Cheers,
Ringo
You definitely need to hear her explanation of why she doesn't want any foreplay.
I'm curious myself!
why wouldn't you want to have any foreplay?
sex isn't just about the end result. its about the fun and pleasure of getting there.
foreplay will help you both relax some. its helps get her juices flowing so she will be lubed up enough. first time or not, sex w/ no lube HURTS.
foreplay also helps the vagina loosen up and expand, allowing for easier penetration.
read through this link to get an idea of many girls first times.
you should tell her it is going to hurt.
I recently had sex for my first time, and it didn't hurt as bad as i thought it would because my boyfriend fingered me first.
So..yeah, just tell her that she'll be in more pain if you dont do a little foreplay first. Even though i don't know about everyone's first time really hurting.
good luck