im new in the world of sexual pleasures and i have a question if anyone can help...when i masterbate i can get it up big and hard without a problem. but when my girlfriend gives me a blowjob im nto able to get it up as well. i think it might be bcasue im worried she will think its to small or maybe im worried hers or my parents will walk in during the act to see . is there anyway i can make sure i get it up just as good like when i masterbate...someone reply 
Mon, 01/24/2005 - 22:00
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first time nerves
[QUOTE=Quote (stepho @ Feb. 07 2005,16:37)]Or you could just get a car thats my trick!
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..im kind of worried about doing it anymore now, after the first time...)
LOL....or if you have a lock on your door lock it and when they knock or say open up say "come in" and make it out like you didnt know it was locked say it must of got locked accidentally or something like that lol..(works with my parents
[QUOTE=Quote (diosarubia10 @ Jan. 29 2005,07:15)]wow, ya know what? my bf had the same prob! seriously, don't worry about it! if she does it to you, that means she wants to. she probably doesn't worry about your size! and as for the parent thing, oh boy, that scares the HELL outta my bf. LoL if you are that worried about it, become more aware of your surroundings. like, leave her door just a liiitle cracked, turn the radio or tv on to muffle any sounds, and listen for footsteps or something. to this day, we've never got caught.
hope that helps sum![/QUOTE]
Or you could just get a car thats my trick!
you kinda went a little deep thier Soulmate, but something along the lines of what he said...
perhaps just stop thinking about trying to "get it up". its natural to have the always possible "fear" of discovery if you are not able to have proper privacy times and place.... if that is causing all the stress and interfering with having intimate relations then just dont attempt to perform sex until you have a place you feel more comfortable in.
dont TRY to make things happen, things should just move along and flow and be...... the more you pressure yourself or stress yourself the less likely you will be to relax and enjoy and just think about the moment and the pleasures you feel and giving her pleasues.....
sex is not meant to frustrate either partner nor meant to be a huge production have to have sex if we are dating...... enjoy getting to KNOW eachother, thoughts, ideas, share experiences, talk, laugh, do non sexual things together, play cards, go walk in the park, window shop, take a pottery class together.... what makes a couple unite into a strong healthy relationship is NOT sex. sex is the step to take the relationship into a further more seriously commited to each other as a person, as having bad days and good days and blah days and..... think this - you hop rabbit and have sex sex sex... oh my gosh this is hot..... then, then say one of yu has to have appendix out.... well now what????? sitting and talking about all that sex you 2 have had gonna get burnt out real quick n that topic..... ok, say 3 more weeks of healing.... hmmmm still talking sex or the one not healing off having sex with someone else????? if you build a relationship , time will naturally evolve and the sex will be. if you plan on having a 25 year anniversary you better plan on other things to take up some of that time with besides having sex..... i know this will get a laugh or 2 and probably a hiss and a boo as well but hate to break it to yu but as GOOD as sex is GREAT as it is, times it is just as much a thrill to think as taking out the garbage. not get boaring, not gets repetitious, not loose passion, just like ok y like brownies, ok brownies it is each and every day next 25 yaer... hmmmm kinda maybe dont even want a brownie today....
loosen up, relax, get to now the person... get to know yourself,... get a grip on who YOU are and what YOU want out of life and YOUR plans.... life is either a l-o-n-g time of eternity stuck in an unhappy place in life with a wife and kids and.... life can also be just as short with not near enough time to spend with your true soulmate.
wow, ya know what? my bf had the same prob! seriously, don't worry about it! if she does it to you, that means she wants to. she probably doesn't worry about your size! and as for the parent thing, oh boy, that scares the HELL outta my bf. LoL if you are that worried about it, become more aware of your surroundings. like, leave her door just a liiitle cracked, turn the radio or tv on to muffle any sounds, and listen for footsteps or something. to this day, we've never got caught.
hope that helps sum!