I tired masturbating for the first time today but I have difficulty having an orgasm and I want to learn my body so my husband can better understand what get's me hot. I always felt bad about doing it before because I was always told that it was bad or sinful but I disagree. Anyway. I tried to find my g-spot and I'm having trouble with that. I felt much different than I expected when I felt inside of me. I expected to feel smooth..I guess..not bumpy inside. Is this normal? I also felt some sensation when playing with my clitoris so that's good new since I've never felt that before. Any help or advice would be nice. Thanks.
Thu, 06/02/2005 - 19:51
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First time masturbater
I agree you should concentrate on your whole body and especially your clitoris. I have only had G-spot orgasms by having my husband's fingers do it and it's not an all the time thing. Some women can. We are all different.
Your best bet is to go slow, do lots of exploring and have fun. I would suggest a vibrator also because most women love them.
Also do some research on female masturbation. There is stuff on this site and many other's that offer lots of ideas that you can try.
Mostly have fun!
Hi curious
Glad you are feeling you can open yourself up to new ideas and experiences.
My first advice would be not to just jump in right away and expect to orgasm and especially find your G-spot. It's an elusive maybe even mythical thing that some women/men can find and others its a mystery. (As says Brandye) :P
I personally can't just say, here's my G-spot.. let me stimulate it. Usually I feel a little extra something sometimes and wonder if that was it.
If I were you I would concentrate on the clit stimulation. That is usually something "most" women can do and bring themselves to orgasm. As you get more experienced maybe move on to more advanced techniques.
Good Luck!!