It does only cause ur not use to it yet the next few times will get better at least that's what my ex said. So don't be scared just do it and after that sex will get really good
For most women, the first involves nothing more than a brief sharp pain. For many, nothing at all - no pain, no bleeding. You should have a gyn exam to insure that everything is at it should be. There is likely more difficulty experienced as a result of lack of lube as anything else.
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try to prepare ur vagina before u do it... massaging it would certainly help, if u have tried fingering it would be better, and certainly a good and relaxing foreplay would have a satisfying result in reducing the pain... its usually a bit painful but keep in mind that u should always relax, u keep calm, and never panik during it...
when u feel some pain try to distract yourself by kissing ur partner, maybe screaming or making some sounds, or even squeezing ur pillow... just dont relief ur pain by hurting ur partner or causing him discomfort(dont bite him, or squeeze his hands, or poke his nipples;)) because when he feels any discomfort, he might accidently hurt u:confused:... but if u felt any extreme pain, have the comfort to say it, and ask ur partner to stop...
I never had sex before but knowingly it won't hurt. It depends on who is reseving IT. Try masterbating with something around the size of a penis like your brush handle for example or whatever. The penis is very flexable when erect. That's what my guy friend told me. Same with my boyfriend. Their still virgins themselves but men just know what women don't. It's a coman knowlage thing. But if you don't feel comfortble for your first time then do what you can to be used to having something thick inside you. It hurt the first time for me when I first masterbated and I bled alittle bit but it gets better and better. Same with sex is what I'm guessing. You end up leanring new turn ons so consentrate on learning your turn on points and with your partner do the same during four play :3
It does only cause ur not use to it yet the next few times will get better at least that's what my ex said. So don't be scared just do it and after that sex will get really good
For most women, the first involves nothing more than a brief sharp pain. For many, nothing at all - no pain, no bleeding. You should have a gyn exam to insure that everything is at it should be. There is likely more difficulty experienced as a result of lack of lube as anything else.
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try to prepare ur vagina before u do it... massaging it would certainly help, if u have tried fingering it would be better, and certainly a good and relaxing foreplay would have a satisfying result in reducing the pain... its usually a bit painful but keep in mind that u should always relax, u keep calm, and never panik during it...
when u feel some pain try to distract yourself by kissing ur partner, maybe screaming or making some sounds, or even squeezing ur pillow... just dont relief ur pain by hurting ur partner or causing him discomfort(dont bite him, or squeeze his hands, or poke his nipples;)) because when he feels any discomfort, he might accidently hurt u:confused:... but if u felt any extreme pain, have the comfort to say it, and ask ur partner to stop...
An Exercise to Help Make the Hymen and Vaginal Opening More Pliable
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I never had sex before but knowingly it won't hurt. It depends on who is reseving IT. Try masterbating with something around the size of a penis like your brush handle for example or whatever. The penis is very flexable when erect. That's what my guy friend told me. Same with my boyfriend. Their still virgins themselves but men just know what women don't. It's a coman knowlage thing. But if you don't feel comfortble for your first time then do what you can to be used to having something thick inside you. It hurt the first time for me when I first masterbated and I bled alittle bit but it gets better and better. Same with sex is what I'm guessing. You end up leanring new turn ons so consentrate on learning your turn on points and with your partner do the same during four play :3