hi im new to this web site and i was just wondering
k i have tryed using toys to get ready to have sex
and this really close friend that i want to be my first
time with wants to do it
and im scared its not going to fit or
something stupied??
what should i do??
im just really confused about this??
Sat, 07/28/2007 - 22:43
#1
First time with a guy thats just a friend!
You have to be comfortable with your choice. But yes, it will fit, you just need a man who is willing to be gentle & be certain you are properly stimulated before attempting anything. Read through some of the posts on this site so you have some information which you are still lacking. Get up to speed and when ready, go for it.
Well first of all, how old are you? This "good friend" you are getting to have sex with you, he wants to aswell? [COLOR="red">Are you sure that you want to give the gift of your virginity to just a "good friend"?[/COLOR] Personally i believe that giving your virginity to a friend can have one of 3 consequences;
1. You will both feel closer together because of the experiance and you will be amazing friends for a long long time afterward. (This is very unlikely compared to # 2 ):(
2. Because of you two having sex once, you will want to do it again and his relationship with you will no longer be just "a good friend." Most likely you will start dating because of this and if the relationship goes south, then so will your friendship. (do you want to risk that?)
3. This good friend is just a friend that happened to agree to have sex with you. After the act, you will realize that you made a big mistake, and he will be able to go brag to his friends that he "nailed you" (do you want to risk this either?):confused:
Think about these things and do [COLOR="Red">NOT[/COLOR] go through with the act unless you are sure.
Also- Wait for responces from more people on the site before you do it. The people here are experienced and caring. Listen to them.:)
EDIT-- Upon re-reading your post, i realize that you are very confused about this. In this case, DO NOT go through with the act regardless of anything he may say, or what your sex drive tells you to do. You NEED to read more on this site and make SURE that you are ready to loose your virginity.
Hope i helped-
Osirisox :cool:
[QUOTE=Osirisox;188681]Well first of all, how old are you? This "good friend" you are getting to have sex with you, he wants to aswell? [COLOR="red">Are you sure that you want to give the gift of your virginity to just a "good friend"?[/COLOR] Personally i believe that giving your virginity to a friend can have one of 3 consequences;
1. You will both feel closer together because of the experiance and you will be amazing friends for a long long time afterward. (This is very unlikely compared to # 2 ):(
2. Because of you two having sex once, you will want to do it again and his relationship with you will no longer be just "a good friend." Most likely you will start dating because of this and if the relationship goes south, then so will your friendship. (do you want to risk that?)
3. This good friend is just a friend that happened to agree to have sex with you. After the act, you will realize that you made a big mistake, and he will be able to go brag to his friends that he "nailed you" (do you want to risk this either?):confused:
Think about these things and do [COLOR="Red">NOT[/COLOR] go through with the act unless you are sure.
Also- Wait for responces from more people on the site before you do it. The people here are experienced and caring. Listen to them.:)
EDIT-- Upon re-reading your post, i realize that you are very confused about this. In this case, DO NOT go through with the act regardless of anything he may say, or what your sex drive tells you to do. You NEED to read more on this site and make SURE that you are ready to loose your virginity.
Hope i helped-
Osirisox :cool:[/QUOTE]
i think Osirisox makes a very good point dont you want to loose your virginity to someone you are very sure of and love? i wish i could have, but then i was an idiot when i lost mine.