Well this weekend we are planning on having sex for the first time, and I am 20yrs old and I have only had sex 3 times in my life. And if my memory is right shes done it a quite a bit more than I have soo my problem is that I dunno if im gonna be good enough, because ive never done foreplay and she said she dont let nobody go down on her first time soo cant really try that soo im not really worred that im gonna suck just that i want our first time memorable. Also a few yrs ago i was house sitting for a friend while my family went camping and i got paid to do this ya know watch ther pets and stuff, and one night i got this super sharp pain from my appendix to my right testical and for like a month or so i couldnt get a erection if my life depended on it and i went to the docotor got testicular cancer test and had tets everything came back on then i started gettin my erection back and now when i ejaculate i loose my erection instantly and cant get it back for hours upon hours or even the next day and soo im afraid i might blow to quickly and well end of it so wut you think i should do?
Thu, 08/12/2004 - 21:04
#1
First Time With Girlfriend
Watch her reactions, every girl will give you some indication on where its ok to do or not. Instincts are good, as long as ur not clonking her over the head and dragging her by her hair (unless thats what shes into) And remember, sex is as mental as it is phsyical, foreplay goes long way. And romancing is always a good thing.
Be slow, caress her all over and don't go straight for penetration. The least satisfying sex I've had (for both) has been when I've just stressed about things too much - the best sex has always been when I've just followed my instincts and just let go. All I'd say is just go with the flow, corny as that sounds, just don't stress yourself out thinking so much about it before hand.
If you want your first time memorable do something special for her. I would say to go down on her but she don't want that so what I would suggest is to have candles maybe rose peddles (every girl likes that) and romance her, don't just jump on her, it might feel uncomfortable for both of you. Just romance her and slowly get her in the mood, don't rush into it.