okay, if hes like demanding you get on him, sit down and watch him get pissed off, you giving him a blowjob is a favour, a form of showing your feelings in a sexual passionate way, if hes tossing you around like a rag doll, dont let him.

and if he asks you to get on again, say you want to practise until he climaxs?
have you tried that?

Have you actually spoken to your boyfriend to tell him that you want him to come in your mouth? If so, how does he feel about it? I think you both need to communicate.

He DID cum in her mouth! Reading is so fundamental.
Okay what you did was fine - all he wanted was to change position to prolong the event - no harm, no foul - and your fellatio technique was fine.
Oral sex (fellatio) to female superior intercourse back to oral sex (fellatio) - no big deal. The question then becomes - did YOU orgasm?

> No I didn't orgasm. I'm going to show him how to do it next time. Since he obviously cant do it.

I have answered this question many times. Please do an advanced search using my name and the key word(s): mimic to read a few of my suggestions.

> Will he take it in a bad way if I grab his hand and show him how to do it? Or will it probably as I suspect turn him on?

What I suspect is that doing all this for each other will turn you both on!

Here are some partial replies from other threads:

"Teach each other how you masturbate. If she will do it in front of you, and you in front of her then each of you will get a vision of what to do. Next, take each other's hand and guide it over a few sessions until each of you can mimic each other's technique of rhythm and pressure. This takes practice and if you think about it, you probably masturbate pretty much the same way all the time, and if you do vary it, not by much, for if you do chances are you will either not have an orgasm or it will be less than desired. So, that said, you cannot expect her to just magically and intuitively get it right, nor you with her."
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"I recommend that each of you show the other how you masturbate and then to take each other's hand and guide their movements over a few sessions until you learn to mimic each other's method of rhythm, motion, and pressure.

Please keep in mind that very few positions provide an opportunity for a woman to achieve a climax directly from intercourse. That said, what a loving, caring, skilled, lover will do is to reach around and finger the clitoris while stroking. Hint...hint.... Consider helping your partner to climax before intercourse as well as after, also, if it is her wish."
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> > Step one:
We do not give orgasms away. Each of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achieve his/hers. In order to do this we must know how our partner does it and then learn to mimic his/her pattern of rhythms, motions, and pressures that are unique and specific to them.

> i dont know how to please him and i dont know how he could please me.

Upon first learning to masturbate each of us quickly develops a routine that we pretty much rely upon for the rest of our life. Oh, sure, we may vary it somewhat from time to time to curb bordom or to add variety and spice, yet if we stray too far from what we are accustomed to then an orgasm will either not happen, or it will be less than expected. I regularly recommend to others with the same concern that you show your partner how you masturbate and then to guide his/her hand over a few sessions until s/he learns to mimic your specific technique.

> >Step two:
We all know the basics of fingering a clitoris and stroking a penis; however, there is more that I refer to as the "Fine Art" of the matter and it is this that must be learned. When it comes to stroking a penis the first time more often than not the woman will handle it much too roughly and abruptly; in other words, her hand actions are not fluid with soft transitions at each end of a stroke. Ask him to demonstrate how he masturbates and then to take your hand and guide your movements over several sessions until you learn to mimic the motions, rhythms, and pressures that are unique and specific to him.

Have him show you where his hotspots are located--or, when you find one on your own, note its location and when touching it is most effective. Here's a clue: The A#1 hotspot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). Rubbing here when he is at or near the trigger point of a climax will pretty much guarantee that he will go beyond the point of no return immediately if not sooner!

Each of us has one or more additional hotspots distributed around the Corona Rim at the rear of the Glans. Casually explore this area from time to time when he is extremely aroused and see what happens. Note where it/they are for future reference.

In addition to fingering the hotspots, is caressing the Glans itself. You should do this with a very moist (lubricated) hand or finger(s).
+ You can slightly cup your hand and let the palm rub the surface of the glans as if polishing a doorknob
+ You can let the surface of the Glans slip between a couple of fingers using different amounts of pressure
+ You can encircle the Rim with thumb and one or two fingers and rub just this one part. If you know where any hots spots are then you can add additional pressure to these areas all based upon the reactions you are getting from him
+ Combine one or more of the above while stroking the shaft with the other hand

(And...this is all before ever being oral!)

Providing feedback is crucially important. When a person masturbates s/he benefits from internal signals that help them modulate their movements and make any tiny midcourse corrections to what they are doing. This is absent when we turn the reins over to someone else. So, how do we get it back? By providing verbal and/or non-verbal cues for how we are responding to their caresses. Verbal can be a whispered word or phrase like "wow", "WOW", "don't stop", "mmmm", "mMMMm", "I like what you're doing", "moan/groan", "more", "moremoremore", etc. Non-verbal can be a squeeze of the hand or a rapid hand movement, or some other form of body language that the two of you work out to convey specific meanings.

Because the female orgasm is much more internalized than a man's I believe it is good etiquette and a necessary part of feedback to let him know in no uncertain terms when you have climaxed. Doing so keeps him from asking the age old question of "did you cum (yet)"?

> > Step three:
Communication is key. So too is exploring, and learning, and discovering together. Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. It is a partnership.

> the couple of times when we've done it i just didnt have any pleasure.

In what way? As stated, this is too broad a statement to give a pinpoint reply. That said, here are some things to be aware of:

* Very few postions provide the necessary and continuous contact between bodies in order to provide and build the friction required to trigger a woman's climax. What most knowledgeable and carring lovers do is to reach around and finger his partner's clitoris and adjacent "pieces-parts" while stroking.

* Because not all positions let a woman climax just form the action itself, there is nothing wrong with having an orgasm before and/or after intercourse, as well as in doing what is outlined, above.

* Do not begin intercourse until you are ready! Do not begin intercourse until he is at or near the peak of his arousal, yet where he can still maintain control. You might say the same goes for you, also; however, it seems to be a common misconception among guys that lots and lots and lots and lots of stroking is the way to build one's level of arousal. WRONG. Most women report that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become tired, bored, and sore!

Stroking maintains an already preexisting high state of arousal; thrusting peaks this and then triggers an orgasm.

* Spend no less than half an hour (more within reason if time permits) just making out with plenty of kissing and caressing of each other's entire body, except for the erogenous zones at first. Work these areas into the mix as time progresses and passions build.

Making out should be all inclusive. In otherwords, you begin at A, add B, add C, go back to A & B, add D, and so on.

Necking, Petting, and Heavy Petting are all progressive and should come before any Foreplay. When you begin Forplay, then all these other things are simply included until a person's passion, excitement, arousal, anticipation, tension, are peaked.

* If you are not receiving any pleasure, then help him to understand what is missing and then to include this into the mix.

> hes never cum and me neither. we enjoy being with eachother but i also want to enjoy the actual sex too.

I believe the two of us have given some pretty good information on how to go about pleasuring each other, communicating with each other, and, for learning how to meet each other's needs. Hopefully others will add their thoughts on the matter.

Please feel free to ask additional questions as they come to mind."

Perhaps you should give him some direction then, hun. They usually like being shown how you 'work'.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;161042]He DID cum in her mouth! Reading is so fundamental.
[/QUOTE]

Oops, yes, of course he did. (It was getting late here in Oz).

hmm
well

i dont know lol

yea..i dont enjoy the taste of cum either

well

i think my bf likes intercourse better then blowjobs...i guess its more

i dunno

romantic?...in a way.

well on the contrare my bf loves for me to graze the end of his penis,
but i know where to stimulate and the force used.

its honeslty about experiementation, i mean obvously not eveyones dick is the same, so go for what you want and do what you feel, if hes into it hell tell you what he likes.

-try sucking the tip and jerking him off at the same time
-graze the tip A LITTLE BIT (NOT HARD) and then deep thoart
-graze all the way down SLOWLY
-fondle his balls while giving a blowjob

try anything, :):) its fun trust me !

well no guys have posted back i dont think, maybe one. but nothing is wrong with him asking you to climb up on top, either he was really turned on, u couldn't get all of his penis in, or maybe he prefers intercourse rather than oral. just remember to not use your teeth, the head is tha most sensitive (duh), and if you could give me any pointers on giving cunnilingus i'd appreciate it too

[QUOTE=CuriousMe;161470]well no guys have posted back i dont think, maybe one. [/QUOTE]

I'm a guy, CuriousMe.