O.K today I had my first experience with sex. It felt alright but i didn't orgasm but thats not really my problem.
I went to school early today and met up with my bf. I forgot to bring this picture he needed for a project (he doesn't have a printer) and I felt bad so we decided to walk back to my house for it.
Well my house is pretty far from our school and when we got there the bell had rang already so we decided to "have sex". We didn't get to far because I'm small and well yeah...it hurt so I asked him to stop. Eventually, he did.
Anyway we ended up skipping 3 periods out of 4!!!!! We asked the other kids at school if they call your parents but they said not usually because theres like 1,000 kids there.
I'M one of the few ones who had there parents called. I told them that I just got mixed up with my classes and I'd fix it tomorrow. I feel so guilty and...just wrong....I don't know what to do and so much bad stuff has been going on with me lately I do not need this...I have nooooo idea what to do.
Has anyone here ever been in a situation like this? If you have do you have any advice? :(
ive been in so many situations like this. although it wasnt sex for 3/4 periods it was missing a lesson or 2 making out some where around the grounds.
you are still at school right? so forget about it! every one does things like this its one of the best bit about growing up.
yeah but I've been in alot of trouble lately....alot.....and I guess I'm worried about my bf too because his parents are wayyyyyyyyyyyy more strict then mine. He's to afraid to tell them me and him are going out...idk I guess I should just relax and handle it tomorrow
he cant tll his parents you are are going out? err wtf?? i guess the best thing to do would be to not let it happen again if it makes that much trouble for the both of you and have your physical relationship out side of school
I mean we kiss and hug at school but...yeah...its really annoying because we've been waiting for awhile to get an opportunity and instead of being happy and closer were both more worried...why is having sex when your young so hard??? rrrr
why is it hard? its hard because its exciting but at the same time scary! you dont know what to do, yet you think you know what they want. hugging and kissing is fine but thaking it further than that should really wait for after school. what is it you are finding hard about it? is it finding time? if thats the case find a time when evither of you has a free house and go over. my first time i had my gf stay over the night.
I'm almost never home alone anymore...even if my parents are at work I have to go to my aunts house after school...so even if he was alone i still couldn't go over.
I am turning 15 in a few weeks so maybe I'll have a bit more freedom then...
o so you are still very young. well at your age just give it time, i know you want to go and have sex right away but be sure about it. have you gone through the other 'bases'? like oral and mutual masterbation, take things slow.
i deffenatly recommend taking it slow. i'm only about a year older then you and already my friends and people around me see me as "very experienced" compared to them i am anyway. i would say wait because there is only one thing i would change into my life and that's to not loose my virginity when i did. i probabaly would still be a virgin now if i hadn't done it then, and i really think the older you are the better it is because over a little while it's only slightly got better for me, if i had the choice i would wait.
I do hope you are talking about skipping class periods and not menstrual periods. You now qualify to worry about the latter! Congratulations.
thats a very good point use protection all the time. if you are going to start having sex then atleast talk to some one about one kind of bc minimum. do you really want a coupple of sprogs walking about by the time your 17??
Yes we have done oral and we did mutual masturbation before we tried for sex. Even before now I've considered my self no longer a virgin. Ever since I began talking about sex freely.
IT WAS PROTECTED!!!! and I'm not a bad kid or anything...its just we've been talking about it for awhile and...well...yeah... guess I deserved that
_edit_ I'd just like to add that I trust my bf *alot* I've known him for about 2 or 3 years now and he's very loving and caring.
You are much too young to be having sex and all the emotional things that go along with it. That is probably why you are having all these thoughts. The maturity isn't there. Wait a while longer, it will only be better when it does happen.
if they want to have sex you cant stop them. but the tc should listen because sex is more then physical there is alot of emotion that goes in to it which even i still dont fully get and im 18.