well i've finally had sex with my g/f and it was good, she definatly seemed to have a good time and although i did to i never actually climaxed. is this natural ? or could there be something wrong ?
Wed, 10/25/2006 - 11:33
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first time and i didn't cum
Please don't be too concerned. Sex is about shared enjoyment of your own body and hers. Sounds like that is what happened. If this is your first time having sex, you may be used to cumming with your own masturbation technique and the sex just felt different, so it wasn't what your body was used to. It will happen. Just don't focus on it too hard. Just continue to enjoy yourself and her. And be safe.
better then cuming in 2 minutes id say:)
>i did to i never actually climaxed. is this natural ?
i recommend that u relax because most likely u were to nervous to climax
[QUOTE=unknown11;155276]>i did to i never actually climaxed. is this natural ?
i recommend that u relax because most likely u were to nervous to climax[/QUOTE]
such a thing known as performance anxiety. Just need to relax bro... also the more u think about it and the more stressed u are the shorter u will last when u are able to achieve a climax.. relaxing is the key and u and your partner will enjoy it a hell of a lot more
I didn't cum the first time ether. I was so nervous, I couldn't even stay hard. My girlfriend was supportive about it. I am doing fine now that I am more relaxed. Find a place where you feel comfortable and safe to have sex, it makes all the difference.