Please familiarize yourself with the Index found near the top of the main page. It contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common concerns people ask about--like yours. I suggest that the two of you read every article, discuss what you have learned, add it to what each of you already knows, as knowledge is empowering.

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
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Key to success is in using lots and lots of lubricant. If you think you have enough, use more! Proceed slowly and deliberately.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

Remember we each have our limits. Some of us never have and never will allow penetration of the anus. Please do a search and read the various attitudes of men and women and make an informed decision. If you choose to: Always use a condom and plenty of lube.