Hey, I'm relatively new here, been touring the forum for a while and just thought I would finally register.
I'm 16 and still a virgin, I was wondering who else is still a virgin, what age are you and if your not a virgin, what age were you when you first had sex and do you wish you had waited for "the right person" or is that just a load of rubbish?
I was 14, never regretted the choice and was happy to be done with it; this was nearly 30 years ago. Waiting for "someone" or "saving yourself" is a personal choice but in my opinion this mentality is grossly over rated.
Im not really saving myself, I just havent had the chance and as time goes on, it gets harder, I'm going on holiday soon, I'm planning on trying my luck over there, see what happens, if it goes wrong, I'm coming back in 2 weeks so it should be fine lol :P
i was 19 when i lost mine...although i was anxious to lose it at the time, looking back i might not have been ready. however i am glad that i chose the right person. its kind of hard to explain...throughout highschool i would meet guys and think "i'd probably have sex with them...but i don't want to lose my virginity to them." lol
i wasn't really saving myself for the person i'd spend the rest of my life with...just...someone who it felt right to lose it to...if that makes any sense lol
I think it's pretty important that you care for the person you lose it to. I don't think it has to be the "right" person necessarily, and definitely not the person you'll be spending the rest of your life with.
Gotta be someone you'll feel good about, though.
I lost it about a month ago. I'm seventeen. I care very deeply about the girl, so I have absolutely no regrets.
Yea eminatic I understand, like you found them attractive enough to have sex but didnt feel enough for them for it to be your first time..
I dont really worry about never going to happen because realisticly, it obviously will, I just worry that by the time it does I'll do something wrong and be humiliated, but how hard can it be?
Condoms, spermicide, birth control pills...etc. Don't need to be called Daddy yet!
Isnt a condom and the pill enough?
[quote=bboy01;192345]Isnt a condom and the pill enough?[/quote]
If used properly (condom) and taken as directed (pill), yes.
Just be careful, and if you're unsure if there was a problem get a morning after pill or some pregnancy tests.
It's the not knowing that kills you. It's scary, actually.
Ah right, thanks, Ill just take each day as it comes I suppose :P
Sex is a journey and believe me some men who are double your age are still straightening out the kinks...hehehehe. Don't try to be a Cassanova overnight. It takes a lot of experimenting and practicing different things, learning about yourself and your sex partner. When I first started having sex, just touching and kissing was a different adventure everytime and it still is. Sex should be fun and spontaneous and mind blowing all at the same time. Sex should feel like its the first time everytime, take a different approach so its always new and fresh and ever so stimulating!!!
I'm still straightening out the kinks. In fact, I'm still looking for them. There are a lot of kinks to discover!
You're a pioneer at a very new and ponderous frontier.
Good luck, and go forth prepared!
Huzza!
hm 24 and still a virgin
i was 19 when i lost my virginity to the guy who is now my fiancee we waited quite a while to sleep together because we were both virgins and we didnt want to make a mistake. its good because we both went into it with no skill and everything we've gained we've learnt from each other
Dont you ever wonder if theres somethin better, something youre missing out on?
"... And we must be satisfied."
- Mother, from RVW's Riders to the Sea.
There are more important things, bboy01.
I lost my virginity about a month ago....im 17 and so is my girlfriend, and we both love each other alot....we were very careful though to make sure we didnt make a mistake....and we did have a lot of foreplay sessions before we even decided to have sex. so we were used to it...and the fact that we were both virgins made it better since we were both terrible at it :D
at first one of the things going through my mind was if i was mising out on my chance to do all that but it doesnt bother me in the end. imsatisfied by him in everyway and as a person he is everything i want a value so why should i wonder about what could have been? thats life
I suppose when you look at it that way, what about going from great sex in one relationship and OK sex in a new one, would you then feel your missing out on something?
lost it 11 months ago age 17.
was'nt ready, don't why i did it, was'nt even with her that long, both virgins, did it after 2 weeks of going out.
i fell out of bed, would go hard and felt like i should die
still did it in the end.
ah what a funny way to lose it.
better than losing it to a hooker i guess
p.s still with the same girl :eek:
I waited til I married as did my husband. I think that is helped a lot for us to trust each other as we think in similar ways.
I couldn't have sex just for the sake of it and especially not with someone I wasn't comfortable with.
BTW I was 21. My husband was 23. And it was worth the wait!
I was 16 when we fumbled our way through it. Well, many years later. We are married now, with a beautifull little girl that is almost 2. Yep, married my highschool sweetheart, and the first person I was with
I was 22 and my boyfriend was 23 (it was actually on his birthday when it happened so he just turned 23). This was a little over a year ago.
We were together almost 4 years before moving onto sex, and we were each others firsts.
I just wasn't ready up till that point and one day I finally felt ready and he was ready whenever I was ready, so no pressure.
So it just kinda happened. I have no regrets about it and I know that he was the right person.
hi, dont know if this a girl only thread but it doesnt say it is so im replying lol....i was 14 the first time i did it. it wasnt a matter of waiting really just having th eoppportunity to lol. give the chance i probs would have done it when i was 8 lol. haha. anyways was with her for 8 months and was doing sexual stuff within hours of meeting her in peson really lol. no regrets on that one. we did it quite alot in the relationship lol.
only other person ive had sex with i do regret lol. not for timing or anything like that just the type of person who she was. she isnt very nice lol.
in comparison really it means more to girls the first time then it does to guys. for girls there is a physical change (hymen being broke) whereas for a guy it is not and from the people i know thats what makes it important to care for the one you lose it to. depending on the mental maturity of the guy depends whether they want it to be special or no. guys have a spell of just trying to 'get laid' and they dont care who they do it with lol.
as they get older though there view and what they want changes lol. anyways im chatting on lol so ill leave it to that lol. toodles