Maybe I just expected too much, but I had sex with my girlfriend tonight and I'm a bit disappointed. I had an orgasm and I'm satisified, but it felt like there was something missing. What I like most was just being in her arms, but she fell asleep and I'm a bit alone. :(
For starters, sex was a bit painful. She did the whole tongue routine first, but maybe I just wasn't turned on enough or something, because she went on to use a dildo, and it hurt.
I guess I accomplished something - I'm not longer a virgin. But I'm still curious, is sex really all that great? Or are first times just not as good as what comes later?
Anytime you're with a new person it takes some time to really get it right. You just have to keep going about it until you both figure out what the other likes/dislikes. Keep trying, it's the only way you're going make it great.
Sex is GREAT! which leads me to believe you two rushed it a bit. First times are usually a bit tense but as you two learn eachother it does get better - much better! But you have to take your time about it. Did either of you do body worship?
Please read around the forum.
First time on a bike, I fell. Sex is a lot more complicated than riding a bicycle.
Yeah, I was pretty nervous, and a bit embarrassed. First time jitters, I guess. I reallly like my girlfriend, and I trust her, it's just my own body that I'm a bit unsure of. And no, we didn't do body worship, my gf just took her clothes off, then mine, and we went at it. Of course, there was alot of touching and kissing before she went lower, but you get the idea.
I could say that the sex felt good and I got the orgasm, but whatever is wrong is pretty hard to describe.
Oh I know precisely what you mean. Stop worrying - the affection and emotional connection will come. For now, relax, read around the forum, and experiment - become confident in yourself and accept your body for what it is.