Hi everyone-
I'm a 21 yo. virgin female looking to spice up my solo sex life. I'm not ready to lose my virginity but I'm no newcomer to masturbation. I am, however, a newcomer to masturbation toys other than clitoral vibrators. I have achieved orgasm many a time by clitoris stimulation but I'm looking for something else.
On a whim, I bought the original Rabbit vibrator but unfortunately once it came, I found myself unable to use it. The sheer thickness and width of the head rendered me unable to even put it in without experiencing a lot of pain.
Is there a similar toy that I can use to experiment with internal masturbation considering I'm a virgin? I don't want to "lose it" to a toy, LOL, but I'm very curious. What kind of sex toy would you all recommend to someone in my situation? Thanks!
If you use tampons and lead a normally active life for a young woman, you have likely already "lost it." You are still a virgin but the hymen is, in most of us, a rather delicate membrane. If you have been sticking anything in there, it is likely gone.
Hi lrb, well, like Brandye said, if you are using tampons, you have most likely already "lost it." I personally don't think that by using a toy you have lost your virginity. That is a very personal opinion, but I feel it has much more to do with being with another person during consensual sex. Just MHO.
Anywho, to answer your question, yes, there are a few toys that you could use to get what you want. You just have to look for something a little slimmer and probably a little softer than the typical rabbit style. There are a few things you can do:
1.(what I would recommend for you) Get a rabbit toy and put it on a vibe so you can make your own custom rabbit to suit your needs. The Verve is a great rabbit toy - it is just the rabbit part and you attach it to a toy. Here is a link to it: http://littlepleasures.org/vibrators_027.htm And for an example of a slim toy that I personally would recommend for you: http://littlepleasures.org/vibrators_015.htm or http://littlepleasures.org/littlepleasuresmaui_023.htm
Okay, so yeah. You can do a few different things here.
1.You can get a rabbit style attachment (such as the Verve: http://littlepleasures.org/vibrators_027.htm) and attach it to a toy of your choice. It is great for customizing your rabbit vibe. You could even get a slim vibe like this one (which feels really good): http://littlepleasures.org/littlepleasuresmaui_033.htm
2.Get a similar toy in a slim style, maybe even look for one labeled anal, as those are generally much slimmer.
3.(What I prefer to do) Use a clitoral toy and a vaginal toy at the same time. I use my Pocket Rocket with my favorite dildo and just love the way that I can get the exact touch that I need. Some women don't like this because they have to use both hands, but I very much prefer it this way.
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