I am going to get my frist dildo but I have a few thoughts I would like to share on it. My boyfriend who I have been with for 6 months and we have only been with each other our entire lives as we were both virgins at 22 when we first met, wants me to get one but assures me that if I really don't want to that is ok too. We have a very healthy sex life and are open to try new things. We have a great relationship and a great foundation and are extreamly happy together. Very glad I waited to have sex because I found the man I want to be with for the rest of my life. Either way we went to lovers package wich we do regulrily for diff things and just to see what is out there. SO I usually have no other problem with goign in there and purchasing things but for some reason that day there were like a million guys in there and not with their girlfriends and I did not feel comfortable with other guys seeing me buy a dildo I don't know why and it was like all fo the sudden I did not want to be in there any more and wanted to bolt end of disscussion. WEll I decided to get one on the internet and avoid all of that weirdness. BUT I am just wondering if I am going to like it and if it will do anything for me lol and I have been more than assured that "trust me it will" lol I have found the one I want and am goign to get it but are there any tips that me and my boyfriend should know. Thanks.
Fri, 10/05/2007 - 22:07
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first dildo
[COLOR="DarkOrchid">Which one did you end up picking out? The only "tips" I can give you are:
1.It will probably be a little awkward at first, but that goes away. Just like the first time you kiss, go down on someone or have sex, it can feel sort of weird. But, that is totally normal and once you get used to it, you will usually grow to love it!
2.Don't worry about liking it over your BF. A toy will never replace the real thing and does not at all compare.
3.Use lube, as toys can have a tendency to dry things up a bit.
4.The more you use it, the more you'll learn about your own bodies sexual response. So, don't be shy about pulling it out to play with it!
5.Not all toys are created equal. My first vibrator was a hard plastic blue thing. I hated it. Lucky me, I didn't give up on toys, so I bought some different types to sort of play around with them. Different toys do different things and if one doesn't work for you, don't give up on them! There is something else out there to put a smile on your face.
6.HAVE FUN! Toys are great and really do bring you and your partner closer, so have a great time with your new plaything.[/COLOR]
My first was a candle. No embarassment in acquiring those! I have an old cologne bottle that was a gift (with cologne in it) when I was sixteen. Never found anything that interested me enough to replace it. Sits right on my dresser. My aunt, who gave it to me, has one on her dresser, too.
interesting but what about vibraters n stuff dont woman like them as well?
Some women like the vibration, some don't. I personally prefer something non-vibrating inside of me with something vibrating on my clitoris.