A question that you may want to ask yourself: Is she aroused (wet) enough?

If she isn't wet enough, then more foreplay is your answer. Maybe let her be on top so she can control how deeply you penetrate and how fast things move?

If she's bored, well, try different positions and keep touching her, don't simply pump into her like a machine. Ask her for suggestions. What would keep her turned on? What would flat out do it for her?

I recommend that you take turns body worshipping the other.
That should arouse you both.

Neither of you did well the first time on bicycles. And sex is a lot more complicated than riding without training wheels.

[FONT="Arial Black">[COLOR="Black">[FONT="Arial Narrow">[SIZE="3">[COLOR="Navy">You wondered why fingering would be so different, so here are a woman's thoughts on the matter:

-It would be more familiar and comfortable to be sexually stimulated manually for her until she becomes more accustomed to intercourse.

-The expectations are different. With sexual intercourse there's a lot of focus placed on climaxing. Think about it. With manual stimulation, usually the recipient is receiving the undivided attention of the giver. It's sometimes easier to relax and experience pleasure in such a circumstance.

-There's really no sense of "obligation" when a woman's being fingered. With intercourse, if there's pain involved, a lot of women will just suffer through and be upset later. Fingering is different because it's usually more pleasure than anything else and if it starts to get uncomfortable, a woman can ask their partner to stop without worrying about leaving them feeling unsatisfied.

-It's more casual to enjoy manual stimulation than the first dozen or so attempts at intercourse. There is an exponential decrease in the amount of nervousness felt by all parties.

-Sometimes intercourse can be less of an experience of connection than a woman would like. (Think about it, do you say "Let's make love" or "I'd like to have sex" or "I wanna f**k you.") The way you think of a sexual act says a lot about it. The latter two tend to be the kind of sexual experience which begins with men being very attentive and then after a little bit, it turns into that experience where a woman can feel like she's being pumped by a machine. When that happens, it tends to make a woman use her mind, the greatest sex organ of them all, less to connect and enjoy it.

I hope that I've been able to help you by giving some food for thought.

Best wishes and happy humping.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/FONT]