Ok girls, if you have, when was the first time it all made sence? I'm reminded of mine because of the earthquake out in LA. Everyone appears safe so here I go. I met a man, new years eve 2003. Yeah I was 42. We went on a few dates and then he got transferred to the west coast. We talked on the phone, sent emails, the usual long distance stuff. We had not done it before he left. So for my bday, mid march, he flew me to Cali, got us a room at one of the hotels belonging to a an amusement park out there. When I got in he picked me up, got me into our room, and left. He'd be back at 8 am. I roamed the hotel one of the amusement parks, went to bed early (there is a 3 hour time difference). Got up, took a shower, changed clothes 3 maybe 4 times and then my cell phone rang. It was him and well, he was right outside our door.
We talked, and he made his move. Opened the door, hung the do not disturb sign, thru the safety latch and walked over to me. Held out his hand and said "Come here". Until the earth moved, well for us anyways, I don't remember a thing. Lots of kisses and wow. He asked when I said now and WOW, so that's what it's all about. 24 hours and 3 times, not bad for a guy 6 foot 4 and 500 plus pounds.
So he was overweight, what it taught me was that just cause the earth moves in California it's not an earthquake (I checked the papers and the news). It also taught me that pressure right there where a baby bump is, below the belly button just an inch or two is a very powerful pressure point, at least it is for me.
Now I didn't move to Cali, and he didn't get transferred home, he cried when I ended it, but today we are friends. And the one I called to make sure he was alright when I heard about a real earthquake. He's fine, sends his love.
Wed, 07/30/2008 - 01:40
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First climax - women only
Ok off topic and definitely not female but I feel compelled to reply. Sort of a
LIFE IN GENERAL statement. Isn't it a sad commentary that it takes significant
events (storms, deaths, etc.) to make us remember what and who is important
to us in our lives. Why don't WE realize/remember that on our own without
the previously mentioned events? It's so easy at times to say the words GoodBye
but so much more difficult to actually let your feelings die. Then you let time pass
and you realize so much time has been lost. Something to think about.
BTW, for all you Easterners, the nicknames are:
* SoCal
* NorCal (not heard very much)
* Cal
* Central Cal
* Northern Cal (with no "i") I have never heard a California transplant from anywhere east of the Rockies who has referred to their new state with an "i" on the end of the abbreviation. Alternately, no nickname is substituted.
Out of curiosity, where did this "Cali" term come from? Sounds strange to us natives, or is it just me.
Not sure Doc. I am definitely east of the Rockies. I do enjoy the Monterey
area quite a bit. Some of the greatest weather imaginable.
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;220157]Not sure Doc. I am definitely east of the Rockies. I do enjoy the Monterey
area quite a bit. Some of the greatest weather imaginable.[/QUOTE]
Oh gah. If you live near the water in Monterey it is cold *year round*, and always foggy. Little league baseball games get canceled all the time due to pitchers not being able to see the catchers, much less the batter see the ball. Carmel, Pebble Beach, and Big Sur can be so beautiful, however.
I've lived in both NorCal and SoCal, and hopefully will soon be a permanently in SoCal. "Cali" became a pop culture term around the early 90's, when many musicians began referring to the state in songs as such. From there, most people who didn't know how vastly different most of California's regions were culturally and ecologically just started using that generic term.
CL- he's my friend, and although I don't visit anymore we do keep in touch. Let's last time he called me, just a week or so ago, it was 11:30 pm where he was which made it 2:30 am where I was fast asleep. My family laughed at me when I called them about the plane crash at the airport in Toronto a few years ago. I was just telling them to stay off the roads anywhere near. My cousin Dennis works at the airport. I guess I am a goof.
And Doc, I've just always called it Cali, I don't get the NoCal, SoCal ect ect ect. I've been all over the state but don't ask me what city belongs to what "nickname". I think Cali is cool and easier to say than California. The cottage is where my family in Toronto goes in the summer, and we here in Michigan go Up North. Going Up North, does not involve leaving the state. And if you don't like bridges you won't get to the U P without a boat and a paddle.
This is funny, well kinda sorta, I IM'd the guy out in Cali just to make sure all is still well and all and it comes back saying it's his niece. She uses his email accout. I don't have video on this computer so who is to say. she asks me if I was coming out for the wedding, I'm like what wedding. I guess he's getting married to a 19 year old, he's 46 and this will be his 3rd maybe 4th marriage.
I find this odd because he didn't tell me, he didn't even tell me he was seeing someone. Anyways I told his niece, if that is who it was to tell him good luck.