The only thing you can do is warn her. If she has done this before, she knows what to expect; if not, she is likely in for a surprise. Most of us had difficulty the first time.

You ask one question and then wonder about a second question. I understand from reading your post that English may not be your primary language.

The title of your post is "Finishing ON her mouth", yet in your reply to Brandye, you talk about finishing IN her mouth. There is a difference.

If you want your semen to fall on her lips you have a couple of options. The first is to warn her verbally or non-verbally that you have climaxed and the semen is about to come out. The second is for her to press her thumb against urethra at the base of the penis in order to feel the ejaculate move.

If you are concerned about oral stimulation then please read the article listed in the Index that addresses these concerns and gives how-to information.

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

Tell her you are about to cum so she isn't surprised when you do and she can be ready. Have her block her throat with her tounge so you don't shoot into the back of her throat the same way she would hold water in her mouth and not swallow it. Let her control how much of your penis she keeps in her mouth when you cum. Having contol can make alot of difference esecially the first time.

Well, not quite, dlb. The taste and consistency of semen are offensive until one becomes accustomed and many women think this is what makes them gag. The real cause of gagging is that first strong spurt striking the gag reflex in the back of the throat.

If responding to a woman I would recommend holding the penis with a pressed gently against the bottom base of the penis (practice this with a handjob). At this point, the ejaculation can be felt moving through the urethra. At the moment the first pulse is felt, press the back of the tongue against the hard palate to protect the reflex point. Some women raise their tongues to accept that first shot under the tongue.

It does not matter how far back the ejaculate is taken, the taste and consistency will be noticeable. The farther back the ejaculate, the more likely to gag.

Another training device is to do it first with a condom (dry, poly) until the mechanics are mastered.

Sure let her know when you are about to ejaculate. She should try to take the ejaculate as far back on her tongue as possible so as not to perceive the taste or texture which seems to be a problem for many women.

I respect your reply Brandye. I think different mouths perceive things differently. I have had very good luck from teaching women to take ejaculate farther back on the tongue, when they are able to get more than just the glans in their mouths. As you well know different parts of the tongue sense different tastes and the back of the tongue happens to have less sensitivity to semen it seems. Taking the ejaculate under the tongue would seem to be a solution but I just checked and it is less than 5 cm from my lower lip to the frenulum linguae. If most mouths are similar to mine I do not believe that having only the glans inside a mouth with the penile frenulum resting on the lower teeth sounds attractive. I also read an article recently in which the writer, supposedly a woman, said that she found that trying to block ejaculate with the bottom of the tongue actually made HER more likely to gag.

Perhaps each fellatrix has to find her own style-exploring different possibilities until she finds what works for her and her partner.

Ask her.
If she says yes then go right ahead. If she says no, then don't.
Life is very simple.

Please let me know when you have read the article.

After you do, please ask any questions that you want to discuss.

Make sure you're properly hydrated and warn her before hand when you're about to orgasm and ejaculate.
It really is not all that big a deal.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;238177]Make sure you're properly hydrated and warn her before hand when you're about to orgasm and ejaculate.
It really is not all that big a deal.[/QUOTE]

That is really sound. If the idea is never implanted that it is a big deal then it won't be a big deal. And after she becomes accustomed to you shooting inside her mouth you won't even need to warn her.

Next step: what does she do with the semen inside her mouth; swallow it or expel it?

As a man in a relationship with a women who has literally thrown up from this (so I'm told, I've never gotten to try it with her) I can say it is a big deal. If she goes down on me at all, and I'm talking even just for a few seconds and not the whole way, it's maybe 4 times a year. Assuming that her bad experience is why my wife won't do this, and not some other issue that I don't know about, I'd say this is a very big deal.

My wife's bad experiences with this have ruined it for me. I'd be awfully surprised if my wife is alone in here discomfort for this based on an early sexual experience that went wrong. If it has the potential to scar someone for life I'd say it is a big deal.

Well, Matt, that is too bad; however, if she is at all open minded to trying oral after acquiring more information, she has all she needs to change her mind by reading this thread and the reference article. I understand that she may never be open to revisiting the matter and this is the sad part. It is one thing never to change one's mind, and another not to at least acquire more information in order to make an informed decision.

My dad was that way: "don't confuse me with the facts." Once he made up his mind about something you rarely if ever could change his mind, even if he was incorrect, or had new intel. that might make the situation better. Ggrummphhh.

Many people say that what the man eats affects the taste of his semen...vegetarians taste better than carnivores I am told. Some people sing praises of pineapple and celery for improving semen taste. Others say that almost any fruit in the diet helps while vegetables in the cabbage family, artichokes and asparagus supposedly make semen more unpleasant. Of the partners I have had who gave blow jobs most have preferred to take the semen as deep in the mouth as possible in order to swallow the semen as quickly as possible and thus taste it less. I have found that this same technique works when drinking really bad liquor and eating really hot chiles! Some of my partners have said they love the way I taste. My current BJ girl likes it as far into her throat as possible. She says that way it bypasses the taste buds and goes directly to her stomach. I had one girl friend who would always drink a beer after giving me a BJ to wash the taste away.

I hope this is more helpful to you. If she wants you to ejaculate inside her mouth you have it made. It's not really a blow job if you ejaculate anywhere else, in my opinion. Maybe you should try eating more sweet fruits, and have a talk with her-while not having sex- about how she would like to go about it.

I will echo Evil Evil Kitten here - it is not a big deal and will not be unless you decide to make it one.

Actually, yes, I have vomited on him - a quick turn through the shower and back at it again. You have to be able to roll with the punches. Sex can get messy/gross/whatever at times - but hey - this is real life and we're all human. Sometimes you just have to grin.

It is only a huge deal if you MAKE it a huge deal.

[QUOTE=BBE;238201]I've read the article doc, but didn't find the advices I was looking for in there.[/QUOTE]

How about listing all the things you want to know. :D
We can try to help but it is hard when it isnt clear what you really want to know?

with all the advise that has been given all I can add at the moment
is to go slow, relax and just let it happen.

[QUOTE=nuttychick;238205] My girlfriend told me she wud like me to finish on her mouth when she give's me a blowjob. Not that I have any problem with that, on the contrary, but I wud like advise on how to make this the more pleasant possible for her[/QUOTE]
There's the original post nutty. He wants advice on how to make ejaculating in the mouth of his girlfriend, who has asked for this, as pleasant as possible for her.

[QUOTE=dlb;238206]There's the original post nutty. He wants advice on how to make ejaculating in the mouth of his girlfriend, who has asked for this, as pleasant as possible for her.[/QUOTE]

Yup I know DLB.....

But he says this......I've read the article doc, but didn't find the advices I was looking for in there.

Me thinks it would be best for him to just say what he really wants..
as clear as he can ....

There actually is no evidence proving that what a man eats affects the taste of his semen. Taste is a highly subjective aspect anyay. So other than making sure he is fully and properly hydrated he should not waste time trying to find "the right foods to eat".

She controls the motion, the depth, etc. - All you do is 'take it like a man, enjoy it, and tell her when you're about to orgasm and ejaculate.