Ok here we go, last night I was fingering my girlfriend for the first time. I usually just rub on her for a little bit but this time I was trying to pleasure her as much as I could. I first rubbed in circles around her vaginal opening and what I thaught was her clit and between her lips ( It felt like a knot at the top of her vagina, I dont know if thats it or not?) and she said it felt good for the first couple seconds but after that she couldnt really feel it. And then I tried rubbing up and down between her lips trying to graze her clit but she said that it was uncomfortable and made her feel like she had to pee. And then I just tried slowly putting my finger into her vagina and she said that that hurt. Ive read up on fingering techniques all around this website and from what ive read all that stuff is supposed to make her orgasm not have to go pee....But she is definately a virgin and im 99.9% sure she hasnt even been fingered before and she claims that she has never masturbated (which I find hard to believe). So im really disapointed that i dished out more pain than pleasure. Could it be that she just has to get used to the feeling and get more comfortable with it and this is more about her than my bad fingering? I would apreciate some help from you guys..