Im so confused, last night i was making out with my girlfriend. we have been going out for just about 6 months, both of ours longest and most indepth relationship. She is very shy about her body but i have gotten her to loosen up really well. Last night for instance was the first time that she let me see her breasts. But anyways, i was fingering her and right about when she started to act like she was really liking it, her vagina began to loose its moistness. Now im pretty sure that i was still keeping her in the mood by kissing her and feeling her up everywere while fingering, but it was wierd. I stopped so that i wouldent hurt her, but i just couldent get it to get moist again. Has this only happened to me, is there any explanation for it. Anythign would help.
Sat, 10/02/2004 - 18:55
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fingering gone bad
Lube yes, but please don’t put Vaseline anywhere near the vagina, anything oil based (which Vaseline is) can cause infections in the vagina, that’s why almost all sex lubes are water based.
The whole natural lube thing can just be down to plain biology; some women produce a lot more than others or produce it for a lot longer.
You could try a lube like I.D pleasures that enhances sensation, or one of the KY lubes has a warming effect and I think their U.S site is giving our free samples.
lots of help, i did stop fingering her at the point were i noticed that she was no longer "producing" and continued to make up./ feel her up. That was what was so wierd, cause when i went back to see if she was ready she was dry. I think it might have been the hormonal thing or the ceiling fan. Thanks again
I agree with the girls here and everything they said. It happens to me lots of times for varying reasons. Just have some lube or a jar of vaseline like I do that you can dip your finger into. Fingering a dry vagina is not a pleasant experience.
Sure. I mean the juices can't flow forever.
And why is the fan thing crazy? It makes total sense...lol.
That's why sometimes I'll get up and at least turn the fan on low b/c we have one of those fans on a stand, not a ceiling fan. It's pointed right at the bed so it was bound to happen lol.
Also, women can be more moist or dry at different points in there cycles. Its a hormonal thing. So like next week or the week after that, you might be in the same scenario and not have the same problem. Maybe next time if you see she is getting dry, stop fingering her and start just making out and feeling her up..etc. then move back down to the vagina. That way it might have had the chance to lube back up. I find continuing to rub down there doesn't really help me, just makes it worse.
so i guess what you are saying is that it may have been just that we were goin at it for to long and she ran out of juice. Or that the fan was drying it out, thats crazy, but i guess you would know better than me. Thanks for your help, ill be sure to turn the fans off next time
[QUOTE=Quote (LittleFury @ Oct. 02 2004,17:57)]Many factors could lead up to it, like if the fan was turned that it was blowing right that way.[/QUOTE]
LOL
that happens to me a lot
It happens sometimes, thats normal, especially if you were doing it for a long time. Many factors could lead up to it, like if the fan was turned that it was blowing right that way. You do want to keep it moist though to make sure no injuiry accures, so just add some lube, and you should be fine. And this does happen.
Uh!?!
Might help if you explain your problem a little more than just the title and a confused looking smiley face.
Sorry about that, first time doing this
This too has happened to me so hckystud your not the only one. I was fingering my ex and then after a while she was not wet down tere. So don't be worried it's not just your girlfriend.