Try working on her clitoris rather than putting ur fingers inside her, women have more nerve endings on the outside of the vagina.

Try going to the pleasing her section, and read all the little tid bits of information. If this really requires such urgent attention, you would probably get more help reading around the board rather than just waiting for advice lol.

btw welcome to the board.

Welcome to the forum. Look in the 'PLEASING HER' sub forum, your questions will be answered... http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/11345-fingering_101.html Do a search for a topic before you post a new thread, you'll have a much better experience here if you do. Good luck.

Generally above the opening to the vagina...Why ask us though? just have your girlfriend show you....a lot more fun that way.

[quote=collosusdj2007;199750]Cheers people..could any1 tell me were the clitoris is actually located?![/quote]Do a "Google search" of the female anatomy; best pictures...and look for all "special" the spots you need to find.

Collos check this picture http://www.gineco.com.br/images/clitoris.jpg

I take it that you're young.

If being touched "down there" isn't giving her any pleasure, then it's probably more her than you.

Stick around this site and you'll learn a lot about what it takes to be a satisfactory lover.

For one, you do NOT make her orgasm. You help out, but everyone creates their own orgasms for themselves.

She's probably inexperienced and nervous, and thus too tense to actually feel any pleasure. Make sure both of you are relaxed, don't worry about performance, bring birth control and know how to use it.

If you can do all those things, then you'll both have a great time.

[QUOTE=Ephemera;199763]I take it that you're young.

If being touched "down there" isn't giving her any pleasure, then it's probably more her than you.

Stick around this site and you'll learn a lot about what it takes to be a satisfactory lover.

For one, you do NOT make her orgasm. You help out, but everyone creates their own orgasms for themselves.

She's probably inexperienced and nervous, and thus too tense to actually feel any pleasure. Make sure both of you are relaxed, don't worry about performance, bring birth control and know how to use it.

If you can do all those things, then you'll both have a great time.[/QUOTE]

I agree! She will be able to tell you better what she likes when she masturbates and knows what she likes.

Fingering to me feels good... so I dunno?!? lol
The technique I like and use on myself is use the 2 middle fingers...letting your index and pinky just rest on the sides of her lips. Use more of your entire palm to rub the area instead of just poking the fingers in and out. This way the "heel" of your palm... does that make sense? lol is stimulating the clit area... that way you don't have to know exactly where it is... but you are in that general area.

At the top of the labia lies the clitoris which enlarges slightly when she's aroused. It is nestled in there and is best teased not with fingers but with your tongue and mouth. Your fingers are best reserved for stimulating her G-Spot which lies just inside the vagina on the roof thereof. So think in and up. Make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed and clean. Hold your hand palm upward, use two or three fingers go in and then gently curl your fingertips upward and stroke with your fingertips hile also moving your entire hand in an out - gently and slowly at first and faster as she heats up. Do this while also performing cunnilingus.

If you get good at this, you'll have to beat the girls off with a stick!

You can also look at www.the-clitoris.com as they have many pictures of actual vaginas and clitorises than just diagrams, so you can kind of get a much better idea of where it is. That site is also a wonderful reference on female sexual response and has tips on how to please a woman.