the other day me and a girl were messing around and i fingered her. well i go back the next day and she acted like she didn't even want to see me. she made up an excuse as to why i couldn't stay, which i don't know if it was true or not. and when i was doing it she was really getting in to it, so i don't know what's wrong.
can any help me please?!
ryan 
She has had second thoughts and does not want to lead you along. What's the big deal?
maybe she felt weird seeing you after being intimate. depending on your age some young people are shy when they start being sexual with others.
ya I agree w/ the other posts, give her a lil bit of time, she's probably just embarrassed.
The only other thing i'd add is: ASK HER!
Wether you do it online, on the phone or face to face, just ask her why she's being distant and if it has anything to do with your "fondling"
Well, I have a few questions...
How old are you two?
Did you build up to the fingering, or did you just shove your finger in?
Have you two been close before?
If you're younger than 18 or so, then she's just being your typical highschool girl. Flirtacious one day, snobby the next.
If you didn't build up to it, you probably hurt her. That'd be a reason for distance. Even more so if you were doing the deed without consent (doesn't sound like that though).
If you've been close before, maybe this time she realized that you two aren't right for each other.
These are just my ideas of course. I don't know the whole situation, but this is my interpretation. And as Rawbob said, ask her.
Yeah, if you're both younger she may just be embarassed or confused. If you're older, I agree with Brandye, she might just be not into it to anymore. Rawbob said it best tho when he said to ask her.
Live life.
Good luck.
[QUOTE=Quote (Vixen916 @ July 20 2003,13:29)]maybe she felt weird seeing you after being intimate. depending on your age some young people are shy when they start being sexual with others.[/QUOTE]
i think thats it...after i fingered my g/f and she gave me a handjob for a first time she told me that she felt kinda weird being around me the next day