[COLOR="DeepSkyBlue"][FONT="Comic Sans MS"]My all-time fantasy since the beginning of time has been to be involved in a threesome with my signficant other and another woman. This is something that we've talked about and are both enthusiastic about trying.
At this point, I've decided that I really want to start pursuing this fantasy before it remains just that. The problem is that I have no idea on how to find somebody who would be interested in joining us. We don't have any mutual friends who are willing candidates because they're all involved with other people.
Has anybody had this problem? Furthermore, has anybody solved this problem? I would be thrilled to know.[/FONT][/COLOR]
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Tis easily done but first are you bisexual and is that to be part of your 3some? It matters when deciding who to ask. All parties have to agree to the mix. Decide what you want to explore and then hunt together for your third person. AFF is a good place to begin.
I agree with evilevilkitten (seems you havent had that happen to often around here). It is essential that all parties to the "mix" agree and are informed of exactly what is permissable during the time spent together. You need to know what to expect so as not to make it uncomfortable for anyone thus possibly bringing a "premature" (warn your SO about the possibilities of this:D ) end to proceedings.
Just a note on previous experiences, it is a lot easier on the male participant if the threesome includes a little girl on girl, as the direct stimulation (physical) could be broken for a while and replaced by visual. That said, many girls, although they do not mind to much for "casual" contact between themselves and another woman (relative stranger) are not comfortable giving or receiving oral or including toys.
One of the threesomes that I was involved in was, by mutual agreement, an all day affair, thus allowing for the the males (my) continous involvement. This was made easier by the fact that the threesome was between 3 long term friends all eager to experience the situation.
LOL very true, learning.
If not bissexual, and you do not HAVE to be, you can use massage, cuddling, and etc. while the men -recharge their batteries.