Question One: Is it normal for couples to have sex when the female is on her monthly? Just curious, because I get really really horney on my monthly. I have yet to have sex on it, I think it's gross at the same time. (We've only been dating 5 months sexually active for one) He said he would do it if I wanted to.
Question Two: Lol I told my boyfriend that I tasted myself when I was masterbating once. I was curious lol. I wanted to know if I tasted wierd or nasty or something lol. Anyways so the question is, do you think im wierd for wanting to taste myself? Lol My boyfriend said he would never taste himself and never has. I'll make him one day ;) lol.
Question Three: Am I normal- I want to try some of everything. I'm very curious and open minded about sex. I really love the idea of sex. I've only had sex three times and my boyfriend thinks im obsessed now haha. I just love pleasing him...I would have had sex with him tonight except im on my last day of my period and think its kinda gross still.
Question Four: A little advice on how to loosen up to be able to talk about sex. Im still a bit uncomfortable talking about it. I brought up giving him a blow job and letting him come in my mouth (Which I have yet to do but really want to.) Anyways then we were talking about my vagina. I couldnt talk about it lol. Im fine talking about him, just not about myself. It's hard to talk about it. I get really wierd when talking about intimate things.
That about sums it all up for now, any suggestions and comments are welcome.
answer to question one is yes. but some dont feel right about it
question 2 you are curious about yourself and sex
question 3 yes your normal
question 4 just come out and talk about it when your comfortable
remember only do anything of this sort when you are mature enough
1. I have never had sex on my period, but it is totally up to you and your boyfriend. I don't think it's weird, but I kind of just assume skip the mess myself.
2. I've tasted myself before. I think I taste pretty good ;) So... I don't think that's weird at all.
3. There's nothing wrong with being curious about sex and wanting to try new stuff. I sure do. :)
4. Just try talking about it more. Don't worry and relax. Communicating about sex will make it loads better, so don't be afraid to tell him what you like and what you want to try. Tell him what feels good to you. Guys love to please their women, and guys love to know that a woman is in touch with her sexuality, so don't be shy! Girls tend to have this hangup, but it will just inhibit you from being able to enjoy the whole sexual experience. I suspect that as you become a little bit more experienced, it will be easier for you to talk about sex.
> Question One:
Yes, it is a normal activity for many couples. Personally, I would not do it on days of heavy flow. Just place a towel under you.
> Question Two:
Curious? Yes. Weird? No.
Vaginal mucus and semen are both acquired tastes.
> I'll make him one day
Encourage--never force, cajole, or make him do it if he remains adamately against doing so.
> Question Three:
Eventually the newness will wear off and while you may remain open and adventurous, my guess is that the excitement might subside a bit giving you a more balanced outlook.
> Pick neutral times to talk when the two of you are not planning to be immediately intimate. As you become more comfortable with your body, him, and intimacy in general, you will hopefully find it easier to discuss those topics that are now uncomfortable. Give it time.
if you want to try on your period, the shower is a good place to try, you wont need to worry about the mess, or getting anything dirty, and it may also not feel as gross being in the shower~ clean water running over your bodies may help that fact
A few comments to answer your questions:
1. I have sex with my wife during her monthly cycle and don't have a problem. The mess is just something to plan for like using a towel under us. It isn't like we do this every day during her time and we usually miss the heavy days, but otherwise we enjoy the sex together.
2. Tasting yourself is some natural curiousity and I don't think it is weird. I love the taste of my wife and try to every chance I get to lick her vulva area. A good way to do this is to have intercourse for awhile and then have him pull out and give him a blow job. You not only get your taste for awhile, but you may get have him cum in your mouth. I have tasted myself just to see what it is like. There are times that I will cum in her and then give her oral sex so she gets some more stimulation and has her own orgasism.
3. Great to be curious about sex. It is a great feeling and with it being so new it is a good time to be curious and want to experiment. Even after having sex for many many years, I still like to try new things. There are still things to do for him while on your period if you don't have intercourse. You can give him a hand job, oral sex, or do some dry humping.
4. As far as talking about sex, it just takes some time to become more comfortable with it. Posting on boards like this helps and as you do it more, it becomes easier. By discussing, it will also help you learn what feels good to him and you can instruct him what works best for you. Part of the hard part about talking about your vagina, or really the vulva is maybe you don't understand all of it and reading about the parts and areas of stimulation should help that.
Thanks guys :) This helps muchly ;)
1. yes
2. he should
3. yes you're normal
4. relax, it will come in time