OK. When me and my girflriend decided to share each other's fetish's with each other, I was took off-guard. She warned me before hand, that it was a weird fetish. And had me not to promise not to laugh and tell her mine (which I promised was probably worse. And it wasn't).
And she has a pissing fetish (water sports). My fetish: Public Sex.
I must admit, my girlfriends fetish disgusted me at first. But now I've sort of became interested.
Now, I'm assuming we're all anonymous here (I am, I know I wouldn't come to a sex forum and tell everyone who I was). So, it would be safe to answer this question.
We all have fetish's that are sort of dirty. That could disgust someone else. So when I ask this question, I don't want some lame answer like "I like my ear licked!". I want a real answer. One that you would be embarassed about if you weren't anonymous.
What is YOUR dirty little fetish?
I just like it when my man is wearing one of his camo print tshirts... mmmmm.... not really a fetish but something that turns me on
Something about army guys...
I'm all over the aggressive, dominant sex thing.... thats HOT. I consider myself to have a very strong personality. In most things and in most relationships, I find myself pushed into the leadership role, whether I want to be or not. But when a man takes total control, forces me to his will, COMPLETLEY dominants me... oh lord! Nothing turns me on more. Just to be clear, this doesnt mean I'm complacent about the whole situation; biting.... hair pulling, fighting back... that just makes everything better!
I really have a thing for both taking control and being controlled. I'm not into the full picture of BDSM, but just the very light bondage part. I would love to tie my grilfriend down and just pleasure her in anyway I can. Also wouldnt mind if my girl did the same for me. I'm just too embarrassed to come out with it in case she thinks it strange. We all have our own little quirks.
I've got some fetishes...
crossdressing.
I like putting on women's clothes, it feels hot and erotic, it's a private fetish of mine. I like putting on bras/panties, lingerie, skirts, leg pantyhose, blouses, etc. Even women's makeup like lipstick. Try to dress up as a real lady and stand in front of mirror and admire myself. I would never walk out in the public like this or anything dressed up as a real woman, it's just something I like to do privately in my own time. What inspired me to try something like this? I think it was the time when I was a teenager, my younger brother wanted to be a woman for Halloween, so my mother let my brother borrow some of her clothes for him to dress up as a real woman. Straight guys dress up as women for Halloween all the time. That's what inspired me to try crossdressing 'cause it looked fun. I don't have women's clothes at this point since I live alone but I plan on buying some soon. Crossdressing really is a hot way to masturbate and really does give you strong orgasms. I find putting on women's clothes is much more comforable then men's clothing. No wonder transvestites and transexuals love to wear women's clothing. That doesn't make me a transvestite for crossdressing in my own privacy.
Women's backs
A woman's bare back is my favorite part of a woman's body that's non-sexual, it's a turn on when women wear clothing that make their backs expose. I have a fetish for women's backs. I would love to learn to massage and give back rubs. Aw man, it would be mind blowing if I give women back massages with their shirts off and their breasts pressing against my legs. If I ever get the opportunity to sleep with a woman one day, I'd make love to her back up and down all over. It's kind of a same thing with men having a foot fetish with women, but with me, I have a back fetish with women...
Sex with an older woman
I have a fetish for older women. I like mature women very much. I'm 28. I love women between 30-50. There are mature women in middle ages who can be very hot and sexy. Those days with couples of having sex in the same ages are over. There are many couples with age differences out there now.
Sex with a black female
I love black women. If I were to have a serious relationship with a woman, I'd love to have a black girlfriend. I've met some very nice black women in the past that I wouldn't mind dating. I really like dark skinned women. And I hear that black women are much wilder and much better at sex though...
Muscular Men
Another fetish of mine I wouldn't release to the public or anyone I know. Unless of course, if I get a future girlfriend that enjoys "man on man action", then I might take it into consideriation to tell her that I'm a little bi-curious 'cause it may turn her on. I like muscles and working out, I'm average built but not much but I do exercise regularly. But when I see pictures of muscular men like you see in model pictures and muscular magazines, I do kind of get turned on.
There's some I can name. Maybe more later.
[QUOTE=Quote (-kythulhu- @ Jan. 20 2005,09:47)]i don't think that all fetish's have to be "dirty". maybe it's just me
for instance, i have a thing for adam's apples, and would consider that a fetish of some sort, along with "tongue play" like licking each other's tongue. perhaps that's not what you wanted to hear, but i think it depends on the person and what they consider a fetish.[/QUOTE]
Exactly.
I have a tongue fetish.
Sometimes it's in a sexual way, sometimes it's not.
i don't think that all fetish's have to be "dirty". maybe it's just me
for instance, i have a thing for adam's apples, and would consider that a fetish of some sort, along with "tongue play" like licking each other's tongue. perhaps that's not what you wanted to hear, but i think it depends on the person and what they consider a fetish.
haha.
I'm with Vaga and Tess on this, changed my mind...
Your assuming that we are all anonymous here. I guess most are. But frankly I don't know if I want everyone here and some are very good friends of mine to know my kinky fetishes. They might think I wasn't the normal girl I portray myself to be.
Besides I am confused on what is a fetish and what is a turn on. Like I really get off on watching someone masturbate. Where does that fall into?
[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ Jan. 19 2005,21:15)]Besides I am confused on what is a fetish and what is a turn on. Like I really get off on watching someone masturbate. Where does that fall into?[/QUOTE]
lol. Well, that can fall under a fetish. But I wouldn't consider that a good fetish. lol. A good fetish is the ones you don't tell most people about.
So just put it in one forum and let the mods deal with that.
Other than Public Sex: Not really anymore. I've kind of overcome all my fetish's when I realized some people found them disgusting.
BUT:
I did once have a fetish for fat chicks and... *takes a deep breath* Transexuals, though I'm completely straight. The idea kind of made me think so much that after awhile i got turned on by it. Just porn though, never went out and got one in real life lol.
[QUOTE=Quote (monie @ Jan. 19 2005,21:05)]Future reference: you only need to post a topic once, in one forum. No need to annoy us with a bunch of threads on the same thing. All but one of these will wind up being deleted by a mod.[/QUOTE]
I had no idea where to put it.
Anyways, back to the topic. You didn't answer the question.
So name ONE of these fetish's. the most interesting one.
Future reference: you only need to post a topic once, in one forum. No need to ... post ... a bunch of threads on the same thing. All but one of these will wind up being deleted by a mod.
To answer your question, I have a lot of fetishes. Sorta. They vary from person to person and circumstance to circumstance. Not everything that turns me on will be affective with every person I encounter.
When they do work, its a bunch of fun.
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Penguin, i found an interesting site that may be pertinent to your topic right here.
And i'm with Tessie on the fetish thing...i prefer to keep my fetishes private
Well, I'll be brave.
I always had a thing for the rape fantasy. That is definitely a fetish since most "normal" people would not want to do that. And I'm not saying I would really want to be raped. Have to be careful there. I know if I had been really raped I would feel different about it and I feel bad for women who have actually been raped. It's just a fetish and turns me on, to do a "play rape". Forceful, aggressive, etc..
But then I like playing the dominant role too, on the flip side. I'm not a true sadist/masochist because I would never want to inflict pain on someone, or be in pain. Owww, I'm a wimp. lol. But I do like to slap my boyfriend's bare ass when he's unsuspecting and leave a little handprint.
I also like being spanked.
I've been a bad girl, should I go to your room?
ha ha.