I say that if you go anywhere near my back entrance be prepared for the doctors fee after I've chopped your penis off, and to be single again.

I was under a lot of pressure from my ex husband to do it, he had the same mentality of your friend. I attempted it (couldn't get the head in because it felt like razor blades) and hated every minute of it.
never-ever-ever again!

Yes, I like it.
Not always, I have to be prepared mentally. Also, use of lots of lube is necessary. Finally, I would never do it with a guy I wasn't crazy in love with. With all these factors being present, I say yay.

I did it with a willing girl at one point, and she said it was OK. She actually was curious about it and asked me, but I didn't particularly like it. Not all guys are into it either. I tend to agree that it's an exit only. I haven't tried it with my current lover, and I don't even want to go there. In my own
not-so-humble opinion, it just seems degrading to the woman.

I thought it was nasty at first, but then this guy i was dating put his finger in just at the right moment, and i had an orgasm like never before. It was fabulous. so ever since then, i love the finger, and i have a BIG curiosity about trying the real thing, but im scared to. And i just read a post by Brandye that really scared me into almost saying nevermind cuz she freaked me out. so now, i just dont know.

NAY! Thank you.

absolutely not a chance....having had it practically forced on my by a number of partners, all experiences have been bad ones. hurts like hell and brought a tear to my eye!...

leave the girls' back entrance alone!

Please look around. The are likely more threads on anal than any other topic.

I say YAY! But, of course, if it's not done 'properly', i.e., with time, respect, some lub and if you're willing to (like anything else). Personally, I like it as much or even more than the 'normal way' - haven't made up my mind yet! ;)

I say "yay".

[quote]having had it practically forced on my by a number of partners, all experiences have been bad ones[/quote]

... and that's why you don't like it!! Perhaps if women tried it only with men who had brains, this wouldn't happen! That statement also applies to basically every single sexual act! Or do you like to be forced on by you partners if it's not anal?

Generally, I don't like it, but sometimes I enjoy it. I wouldn't at all say I LOVE it...not anywhere near loving it.

Nay
A finger feels good sometimes...but not full on anal.

We have never had full anal sex, but do some light fingering at times. Not very seldom and she has to be in the right mood. When the timing is right we have a great time with it. Wrong timing and it can kill the moment. There have been some times that she will like some pressure in the back door area with my penis. When that happens, I let her decide how much pressure to apply and there have been times she moved to take the head of my penis in, but that is it. I thought it felt great at the time, but this is not a favorite of ours.

I really enjoy it! Especially after a nice back massage followed by lickin all the way down to my bum...a lfew fingers inserted during vaginal intercourse--and I'm ready to go!

you have to find a good position of it hurts like hell... it's a yay if your partner uses lube and goes slowly allowing for you muscles to relax and get used to it... you should start out with something like fingering or small anal beads and work your way up so it isn't painful, and yes lots of lube...

I know this is a girl response only thread. but Im a guy and I would never expect a girl to let me put it in her butt.

I do say buttsex a lot but thats cos Im immature and I think its funny.

sorry, but I'm a guy and I have to rebute some of the things women say about anal. After all, anal is VERY specific:

1 - Man must go slowly
2 - Never do it BEFORE vaginal. Let her warm up
3 - LUBE LUBE LUBE
4 - and rimming before that
5 - and fondling

basically, anal to be done with a man who knows what he is doing, and has the brains to STOP when something goes wrong, and SPECIALLY does anal slowly, EVEN if she is liking it. Women are tighter there, so no need for speed :D

Prosecution rests your Honor :D

hMmM well one night my guy was sort of rubbing his penis back there....and i didn't stop him because it felt surprisingly good...

he started to apply more pressure which i also found pleasurable, so i leaned against him a little harder (i was lying on my side) and his penis sort of just slid in a few inches. (from everything i had read i was NOT expecting it to go in as easily as it did) a part of me really wanted him to continue but i stopped him because i was afraid it would be too messy :( (since neither of us had prepared for that)

so i guess i'd really like to try it but i'm too chicken because of the possible messy-ness :confused:

*as a side note, i've never been able to orgasm either alone or with a partner and this experience was highly more pleasurable than anything i have ever had before :o

Try it again with a condom. It can feel extremely pleasureable and not messy at all.

yeah, that was the other reason i stopped him. he refuses to wear condoms, and STD free or not, thats still not a safe place to be going without protection =\ as i understand that other infections are likely to occur from bacteria that is naturally in the rectum...

yay...kinda... at first it rele hurts.but my bf takes it slow and we talk to each other makin sure im ok. after the worst is over its VERY NICE! i luv it. but then after i feel like i av to go toilet even tho i dont. but part frm the start and after its actually quite nice. u jst gota be daring tehehe. :)