Hi! Today me and my girlfriend decided to go all the way, but I found that I could not get my penis in. It was a combination of my erection not being rock hard (due to nerves), and her vagina being really, really tight. Anyways, i decided to finger her instead, and as the minutes went by, I put another finger in, and more time went by. Anyways, at the end of it all, she said it hurt down there. She also said that she generally felt 'wider', and although I obviously did it too hard, this seems to be a good step towards full penetration. Is this a common thing that's supposed to happen? Is the 'loosening' permanent?
Thank you
Tightness is caused in general by lack of relaxing the muscles--common with nerves as is failure to remain hard for men. Remaining tight, yes, the stretching is only temporary.
Ahhh, okay thanks. Damn... i'm sure i'll get it in eventually, lol
[quote=trobson666;185132]Ahhh, okay thanks. Damn... i'm sure i'll get it in eventually, lol[/quote]
It's just the point of getting her relaxed and really worked up. Be certain to use lubrication!
Yeah I guess you're right, thanks. As for lubrication, is that really necessary? She tends to produce plenty of her own, and the condoms we have already come with extra lube. Well, i'll be sure to take that advice if that's not enough. Thank you, much appreciated :) !
yes... more lube is good all of the time. she will probably dry up a bit while doing the deed.
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