For me, none at all is the most preferable, with neatened up scoring an "ok" on a scale from 1 to 10.

I find now that I prefer just a little hair on the mons (neatly trimmed) with the rest completely smooth.

By neatly trimmed I mean really short. Anything with too much length and I find that it makes oral a little less exciting. Anyone else ever choke on a pubic hair?...anyone? anyone?...:p :D :cool:

I like it sort i would love for my wife to shave it all off but but she says it is irrtating when it growing back and i have shaved and it is so sort is better than long=========== and well any one of you woman out there 35 to 40 go read my posts and let me know what you think please

[QUOTE=pozzolane]I find now that I prefer just a little hair on the mons (neatly trimmed) with the rest completely smooth.

By neatly trimmed I mean really short. Anything with too much length and I find that it makes oral a little less exciting. Anyone else ever choke on a pubic hair?...anyone? anyone?...:p :D :cool:[/QUOTE]

I came extremely close to quoting the full-length feature film Baseketball here, but I decided against it due to a belief that the quotation would be confusing to someone who wasn't familiar with the movie. Know this: it involves pubic hair and is hilarious. On a side note, I've never choked on a hair before, but I have gotten plenty in my mouth, teeth, etc. My friends and I actually came up with a unique way of saying farewell to each other, regarding the hair in the teeth situation. It's rather covert, so those on the outside of the joke don't realize that anything dirty has been said. It goes like this... "See you later. And dude, remember, keep your teeth clean."

I like it totally bare or shaved with a small strip or small mound. The strip or mound should be as short as possible and still be comfortable.

[QUOTE=help me]I like it sort i would love for my wife to shave it all off but but she says it is irrtating when it growing back and i have shaved and it is so sort is better than long=========== and well any one of you woman out there 35 to 40 go read my posts and let me know what you think please[/QUOTE]
She could get it waxed....it only hurts for a little while :eek: and it takes forever to grow back. But, you have to search high and low to find a place that does a complete wax (or DIY-which is what I did because no one here does even brazilian waxing).

I just tried the waxing myself the other day and as a male I did it myself. Wow, not very pleasant but after a day or two it is nice and smooth. I just did the top part and shaved the scrotum. I had to tweezer some of the pubic hair the waxing missed. But you girls have my admiration for going through this. Wether I will try it again or not I'm not sure if the pain is worth it. Just will see in 3 or 4 weeks how it grows back and feels during that time. So I am now ready for the summer with a nice clean scotum, shaft and pubic area. I left a little patch for fun. I don't think it will last too long before I go totally bare. The wife just shaved her also but left more than I like. Hairy labia and the patch above the vagina is too big and long. Maybe when she sees mine she may decide to join me and trim hers. Mine is only an inche wide and a little over inches long. The hair when stretched out is also about an inch long. It could be shorter, but with the small patch, it won't show if it is much shorter and then there isn't anything to play with. By then I would just shave it off and be totally bare.

I actually prefer at least some pubic hair to be there on my girl. Trimmed is nice, anything but scorched earth really.

That's fine if it is YOUR choice. The problem comes when it becomes a requirement i.e. your partner's choice and not yours.

i like little as possible hair there

To answer your question...I like my girl to be at least nice and neat, if not smooth on the bottom around the vagina. Some of on the mons if fine as long as it isn't too thick. It makes it easier and more inviting for oral!

i love it shaved/waxed, but really i dont mind a little hair.. well even more then a lil, personally for me bare is the best but i wouldnt think any worse cos of the hair, it can be very sexy too..

Trimmed is sufficient, thank you very much.

Waxing hurts, and shaving itches like hell and you get in grown hairs which hurt - not worth the trouble. And if you slip...OUCH!

Are you serious, no oral if there is any hair? While I also have a "preference" for shaved/waxed, I just can't see how "distracting" hair can be... Hmmmmm...

I'd prefer non at all, I find it a bit distracting during oral. I don't mind it long though, just means she has to accept only fingers during foreplay.

totally agreed - i used to shave but it grows back so quickly and it looks awful when its growing back. waxing is very good but it hurts. i always leave a strip down the middle anyway, which i trim very short. i think they look really hideous totally shaved!

Oops, never mind.

If he requires you to be completely shaved and will drop you if you aren't then perhaps you should drop him for being 'prissy'.

Oops, never mind.

I am shaved, and I like it much better that way. I don't really get any irritation, and it's much smoother and just feels nicer to me. My boyfriend prefers it this way, too, though it's not like he would leave me if I had a bush.

you're very lucky :) i get real irritation from shaving :(

Not completely shaved, but with just a bit ontop not too much though

I like it shaved around the labia and up top with a little mound. My wife doesn't like to shave her labia because it is uncomfortable for her, but she does the rest. That is fine with me, I just enjoy the shaved area up top and like the little mound of hair to play with. The hair around the labia aren't very thick so that isn't bad and I still enjoy OS on her. She lets her mound get long at times which isn't my preference, but a quick trim about once a month takes care of that. I definatley prefer trimmed and some shaving over a full bush and appreciate what she does down there. By the way, I shave completely and prefer that for me.

Just as a general statement, you will not find many men nowadays who actually prefer a full bush. If you care at all what he thinks then you should at least be going for the neatly trimmed look.

Personally, I prefer completely shaved, but that obviously isn't ideal from the woman's perspective for reasons previously stated. Neatly trimmed will suffice and if you expect to receive oral sex, it sure does make it nice if you don't have a lot of hair underneath and around your clit.

Making sure that area is well manicured can make the difference between him just "doing a duty" and him actually being EAGER to lick you down there.

Interesting ua322. I haven't ever refused a totally shaved male oral sex -because if it got to that point I must like him, right? But guys seem to feel that women must conform to his standards or else? Very sad.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;160066]Interesting ua322. I haven't ever refused a totally shaved male oral sex -because if it got to that point I must like him, right? But guys seem to feel that women must conform to his standards or else? Very sad.[/QUOTE]

I keep myself trimmed down there because I don't like it growing wild on me either. No double standard here.

My wife lets it grow wild but that doesn't change my willingness to perform oral. It does, however, reduce my enjoyment of it greatly.

Bottom line, if you want him to lick you because he feels it's his duty, then so be it. If you want him to lick you and actually enjoy it while he's down there, then a little trimming goes a long ways.

No need for you to be offended by that or for you to make some broad, sweeping social comment about it. If you like to grow it wild and your man likes that, then great.

I was merely answering the question that was presented. She was asking for male preferences, and mine is a common male preference.

True ua322 np, hun.

But tell the truth - any sex, even if furry, is better than no sex. *W*

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;160160]True ua322 np, hun.

But tell the truth - any sex, even if furry, is better than no sex. *W*[/QUOTE]

You will get no argument from me on that one. I'll deal with the unkempt shrubbery if that's what it takes. ;)

I enjoy the thought of pleasing my woman, and oral sex is the most intimate way I know how. I will agree with whatever she chooses to do, but I enjoy satisfying her more if it's even slightly shaved and trimmed at the top. I would perfore oral at the drop of a hat if she kept it clean...

I like a completely bald pussy. MMmm that's hot.

What Sirene said. Yep,yep. And a waxed *******. Awesome.

My preference for pubic hair au natural, trimming or shaving has developed over the years as I have tried different things with my wife and even myself. I have loved having sex in any condition and love to bury my face between her legs. Since this is asking a preference, my answer earlier of having her completely shaved was a preference, but it is still up to her to do what she is comfortable with. My wife didn't trim at all for many years, other than shaving her legs up to her bikini line. But then some pubic hair would escape from her swim suit because they would get too long. Once we were talking about it and she said that she will trim herself once or twice a year to help prevent that problem, but I could never tell when she did it since she still kept it long and bushy even after some trimming. She would trim mostly the long hairs along the bikini line. I offered to trim it for her once and was able to trim the entire bush down short. I think she thought I might think she was weird if she did it that short. But I found I much preferred the shorter length and was able to trim her every few months. Then we were out boating she was doing some maintenance shaving on her legs. I offered to take over and make sure to get some of the hair on the back of her legs and she let me. So as I was finishing around the bikini line, I took it back further than she normally would and found I really enjoyed the look and feel of less hair down there. Once I really shaved her area well by shaving most of the area around the labia and left a landing strip up top. It was a total turn on for me the way she looked and the feeling when I would play with her or give her oral. She was uncomfortable when some of it started to grow back because of the itching. But she knows how much I enjoy the look of a shaved pussy and so she is willing to compromise. She does enjoy the trimmed and shaved look also for herself and knows my preference, so she is willing to keep the area up top shaved except for a small mound up on top. She will trim the mound and lately has been keeping it fairly short, but will only shave part way up to the labia. With the experimenting on her, I also started to shave part of my pubic hair. At first she just thought it was silly and she didn't have a preference what I did as far as trimming or shaving. After many years of having varying sizes and shapes of pubic hair above the shaft, I have gone totally bare and prefer it that way for me. Every time I let it grow back for a physical, I can't wait to get it shaved or waxed off after visiting the doctor.

for a long time i kept myself untrimmed etc...but about a year ago i started shaving and leaving a landing strip...i really enjoy having the bottom shaved and smpooth...well im now totally bare after a shaving accident when i slipped and took out a good chunk of my landing strip out...luckily only the hair lol...so i shaved it all off and have never been happier my boyfriend likes it alot too...been getting alot more oral lol...hekeeps himself totally unshaved or trimmed and i really dont mind...and yes i have choked on a pube...they suck when they get in the back of your throat lmao

Never been with a girl who had a Brazilian wax. I would say...landing strip or bald

well i love it smooth but as long as my gf keeps it trimmed i aint bothered.

Absolutely bare. You might be surprised what I am willing to do or how long I will stay down on a bare pussy. Absolutely the best when bare.

i think totally bald looks too much like a prepubecent girl. since i don't like oral anyway, i just shave the labia and a little around the edges up top to neaten it up, then trimmed to make it neat. my husband says that hair around the labia irritates him (physically), but i was shaving that way long before i met him because i happen to like it, and so does he.

Trimmed fur is the best!!

Some upkeep is needed. Trimmed with a little shaving around the edges works for me.

If only there was a more permanent way to get rid of hair down there; shaving everyday or waxing every week or so gets to be such a chore!

Yes it is a chore to shave or wax - which is one reason why a trim once a month or so is much better!

if you have a very hot bath and then put up with pain (it stops hurting after 5 minutes) you can pluck round the edges and that takes longer to grow back, you don't get thick, hard stubble and it leaves your skin better...

i just feel too pre pubescent without any pubic hair.
i trim it short and shave the edges.

When shaving i find that it hurts quite alot sometimes even after bathing for a while and can bleed, also not all the stuble goes, any tips?

Well a lot of guy friends would say really short, and trimmed right on top of where her clit is (the mons), around there. Which is good, and i like it too. But the way my gf has it is sexy as hell too. It's waxed around the sides :eek: (i don't know how she does it lol) and shaved, completely smooth everywhere else.

I absolutely love it el natural, with a nice big bush on my gf and she likes to grow it out for me:)

Why is pubic hair such a big deal?

Honestly, how many people actually would change their mind about being with someone if their southern hairstyle was less than great???

I think that you should just go with what makes you happy!

Happy humping!

My girl used to be shaven nicely. Now she's just gonna trim it short but hairy all over. Im not looking so forward to going down on her now.

No matter what your girl looks like down there as long as she is comfortable with it you should love going down baby!!

to the original poster. NO PUBES!!!