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The fix that you are asking for seems to me to be to change your game plan and to stay away from her erogenous zones like the clitoris and nipples. Stimulate this less frequently and your love making will be at a lower arousal level and therefore a slower pace.

Please scan the Index and read the articles that are of interest to you. There is one on arousal curves and there are several that discuss how to make out--the old fashioned way.

After doing some homework, please feel free to ask any questions that you have.

Unlike the condom which moves with the penis, the female condom tends to insulate the female parts from friction. You may want to use one once in a while. I find they have the effect on me that some men report wearing a condom.

Tease her and then... STOP! My late wife was also extraordinarily orgasmic, and could potentially begin orgasming 3 or 4 minutes into foreplay (prior to any oral even), and climax a half dozen times in 10 minutes--manually, orally, and once or twice in each of several positions during penetration. She'd get exhausted before I even had a chance to get warmed up! (Sounds like a role reversal, eh?!) Anyway, so that we could make love for longer periods of time, we taught each other some teasing techniques, which would get her hot enough to keep going, but stay just short of orgasm. She'd still enjoy her 5-10 orgasms per session, but instead of the sessions lasting for 15 minutes, they would last for 30 minutes to an hour or more. It's important to understand her responses very well however, in order to do this correctly. If she is very quiet, and you can't tell when she's about to climax, then how can you know when to slow down or stop or change positions or tempo? So it'll mean she must communicate to you where she is in her excitement level. Of course, if she's one of those verbal women ("Yes, yes, just like that, ooohhh, just keep doing that a little bit... ohhh harder, yes... don't stoppppp!"), then you'll know (stop exactly when she tells you not to!!), but if she tends to be quieter, she'll have to communicate to you very clearly. Bring her right to the edge a few times but don't let her go over. Then push her over and keep going--until she's about to fall over again--at which time, stop, or slow down, or change something so that she's not going to climax right away By the way--this is very much the same technique one can use if the man is climaxing too soon.
Michael

All I can suggest is like Brandye said a female condom, but then again atleast she can have an orgasm allot of the time women dont have a frequent orgasm, so maybe consider it a mixed blessing