Hi I'm Ellie and I'm new here.
I have an unusual masturbation technique that I doubt anyone else has.
Here goes...
When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing orgasm.
It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself. I've recently stopped using the bouncer in favour of a more sturdy set up of a home made harness hanging from the beams in my parents attic.
Its difficult to describe exactly how it works for me, but essentially I swing and bounce in the harness while rubbing myself against the material of the harness. Hopefully you get the idea. Anyway, I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and I do sometimes feel like I shouldn't be doing this and I have tried to stop but I get such intense orgasms from it that I always come back to it. Also as I get older I worry more and more about the strength of the beams - will I get too big to do it?
It wouldn't be such a problem if I had my own place, but living at home means I have to be careful not to get caught.
I guess I would like some advice/opinions on what people (preferably females!) think. I don't feel able to discuss this with friends for obvious reasons, so any advice people can give is very much appreciated.
Ellie.
> I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and I do sometimes feel like I shouldn't be doing this and I have tried to stop but I get such intense orgasms from it that I always come back to it.
While unique, I certainly do not believe ths is odd or wrong--just different. There have been stories circulating for years about girls sliding down the bannister with a smile on their faces. It seems like your method accomplishes the same thing and can last as long as you want!
> Also as I get older I worry more and more about the strength of the beams - will I get too big to do it?
Whether on not you live in snow country or not, most roof structures can support a couple of hundred extra pounds, especially if your chair is supported by two different straps instead of having a single point of attachment.
> It wouldn't be such a problem if I had my own place, but living at home means I have to be careful not to get caught.
Over the years I wished I had had an attic in which I could use for whatever, although, I wished for a basement, more, something you do not find many of out west.
I'm curious whether you bounce around in the house when parents are downstairs? Doesn't the chair make noises as it moves? Just curious. If so, what your explanation might be? ;)
> I guess I would like some advice/opinions on what people (preferably females!) think. I don't feel able to discuss this with friends for obvious reasons, so any advice people can give is very much appreciated.
There is no one way and certainly no right or wrong way to pleasure oneself. Do whatever feels good and do not worry about whether the "Jones'" are doing it the same way. Now, having said that, I really do recommend that you do not eliminate the standard way of pleasuring yourself using your fingers while lying in bed or sitting in a chair. You must be able to climax this way so that when the time comes for you to turn the reins over to a partner you can achieve orgasms from his fingers. The same goes for using a vibrator or any other alternate method. Use these methods, but do not rely upon them.
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>>>While unique, I certainly do not believe ths is odd or wrong--just different. There have been stories circulating for years about girls sliding down the bannister with a smile on their faces. It seems like your method accomplishes the same thing and can last as long as you want!
I guess it must be similar to this. Although there is no penetration, I can still achieve great orgasms through just stroking and rubbing against the material.
>>>I'm curious whether you bounce around in the house when parents are downstairs? Doesn't the chair make noises as it moves? Just curious. If so, what your explanation might be?
Well I don't use it when they are home. I have to wait until they are out and make sure I dont get caught if they come home early. Which is a pain! The harness doesn't make noises as it is just a piece of cloth, although the beams make quite a bit of noise! I have used a sort of harness since I was quite young, and my mum did know I was using these, but i wasn't masturbating in them at this time as I was too young. It was only when I became a teenager and realised the nice feelings i got from sitting in the harness were sexual that I started to use it private. There's more to it than this but I dont want to bore everyone with the details!
>>>There is no one way and certainly no right or wrong way to pleasure oneself. Do whatever feels good and do not worry about whether the "Jones'" are doing it the same way. Now, having said that, I really do recommend that you do not eliminate the standard way of pleasuring yourself using your fingers while lying in bed or sitting in a chair. You must be able to climax this way so that when the time comes for you to turn the reins over to a partner you can achieve orgasms from his fingers. The same goes for using a vibrator or any other alternate method. Use these methods, but do not rely upon them.
I do still use "conventional" ways to achieve orgasm and I've not had a problem with partners. I guess it is just something I enjoy doing during 'my time'. Do feel free to ask any questions. Its nice to have people to discuss it with.
I would echo Doc's sentiment that it's not wrong or anything to be embarrassed about. We all have our things.
Hey Ellie, I don't think it sounds to weird I think you just really enjoy the movement and action you get from being able to bounce while rubbing against the harness, more sensation. I don't know how big you are but a lot of whether or not you'll get to big to do this will depend on how you have the harness attached to the beams and the size of the beams. Send me a message if you want and i'll try and let you know cause I've done construction work in the past.
Hey, if anything this is a good thing. If I had a gf who did this and she let me watch, that would be great!
Have you ever told any partners you've had that you do this?
You honestly wouldn't think 'what the hell is she doing'??!
I've never told any partners what I get up to. I'm not saying I haven't thought about it, but I've never got up enough courage to tell them. It's not really something you can just come out with is it? :)
There is nothing wrong with getting off this way but I would be a little selective as to who I told. People who haven't experienced it may not understand it and that might make them see it as a little strange. Tell the guy if you are in a serious relationship or you trust him unless you want mutual friends to know if you break up. But I have to agree with CleverName sounds pretty hot and would definetely like to see it if my g/f was doing it.
If you only modified the harness and not the cords themselves, then it will probably break. You need to take into account that the cords are organic compounds that do deteriorate, especially to chemical and UV exposure and that they were made for a baby. You could always replace them with exercise straps and cords but please make sure that you aren't very high off the ground, have a pad under you, and that there is some sort of cover over the beam like a blanket which protects the cords from abrasive wear.
If it does fail, it is likely to fail on one side first, and that will result in your body falling to one side very quickly and possibly slamming head first.
As long as safety precautions are taken, I don't see anything wrong with this.
Anyone else having images of those silk sash swinging acrobats at Cirque Du Soleil having a bit of fun on the job now?
I'm not using any parts from the baby bouncer any more. I got too big for it and the door frames some time ago which is when i changed to hanging the harness from the attic beams. I took a trip to the hardware store and bought some rope and some bungee straps which replicate the bouncer. And I do regularly check all the straps for wear and tear and change anything that looks like its giving out.
I suppose I was worried about the beams because they do creak and groan under my weight, and it seems to have got louder just recently. Its difficult to see whats going on up there though when I'm in the harness. Because although the harness is attached to beams in the attic, the ropes pass down through the attic hatch and then I sit in the harness on the landing below.
I do use other more conventional methods to reach orgasm especially as it is not always convenient to use the harness. I just have better orgasms when I do use the harness. So far it hasn't given me any problems with my partners, although I haven't told any of them I do this, and as griff_32 says, not everyone would understand.
I can't really put my finger on why I like it so much. As I said above I have been using a harness of some sort since I was very young. I remember making harnesses out of my nightgowns hanging them from a shelf or hook on the back of my bedroom door and sitting in them naked and just enjoying the feeling of the material supporting me and pulling between my legs, then as I got older I realised they were sexual feelings. This is when I began to do it in private without knowledge of my parents. I actually can't wait until I move out and can do this whenever I like!
Wonder if I could get a job at Cirque Du Soleil?!
[QUOTE=Ellenna;243043]You honestly wouldn't think 'what the hell is she doing'??![/QUOTE]
Like I said Ellie, we all have our 'things'. And I'm confident that we all have some of those things that we hesitate to share with our partners for fear of their reaction. Hell, T puts mine to use on me all the time, and there are STILL times I feel a little foolish about that being what does it for me. But if he found anything wrong with it, he wouldn't use it, now would he?
I would think it's pretty hot to be honest, haha. I'd be drooling all over myself if my gf did that in front of me. :rolleyes::D
Well I never thought anyone would consider it 'hot'. Apart from me of course!
Maybe you could persuade your girlfriend to have a go?!
I wish, haha. She's a bit self conscious though, getting her to try somthing like this would be pretty difficult.
I bet after her first go she'd be hooked!