Well, i don't mind masturbating in front of him, but i usually do it while he is busy with other parts (of me). I wouldn't just sit there in front of him doing it while he watched, it seems too... dunno. i just wouldn't feel comfortable. And plus masturbating by myself doesn't turn me on anyways.
I don't mind masterbating in front of my boyfriend at all. In fact, it can be really fun for the two of us to masterbate together. However, having him around can be a little distracting, so it tends to take me longer to reach orgasm.
my girl loves to masterbate in front of me,and i love it aswell!its normally after she has striped for me and teased me,and thts wht turns her on,but its only a matter of minuets till i join in,coz i cant resist!!!!!
I agree with the last post.. during sex and I have no problem with it at all really. The last guy I was with always told me it was his biggest turn on to watch a girl. While we were doing the deed I reached down and started doing my thing at the same time. he told me while we were in mid-business how much he liked it. I don't know why, but unlike most girls, I don't mind masturbating in front of a guy. I do it all the time when I'm alone thinking about him, so why wouldn't I share what I like and want him to do to me?
Recently he was working on me and I went down to help him a little. He took his hand away and started working in other places while watching and talking dirty. I LOVED it! I was already wet because of him and it was so nice. I even remember saying I probably wouldn't like it in a conversation the previous day. Boy was I wrong!
when my b/f and I first started having sex I was shy about touching myself in front of him, but now I sometimes do it and not even realize it. my b/f will even stop sometimes just to watch me... he says its a real turn on. we've never actually just masturbated and watched each other do it though, I don't think I could stand it him being there and not touching me
My man loves to watch me masterbate and I like that it turns him on. He says he loves to see how pink I am and how moist it gets. He says that he doesn't get such a good view of my
vagina during intercourse and appreciates just being able to
watch and admire.
i done it for the first time last night(out of personal reasons and it seams he got horny even more,on that...so i don´t know...i don´t prefer to do it but for me it is not stranage at all
My to-be boyfriend (long story) once asked if I'd ever do it infront of him, and I was like, "hell no" but that was because I never masturbated. Well, since then I've started to, so I know what I like, so when we're together I can let him know where to go and such...and actually, now that I've started using a vibrator, the idea of exploring myself and having him see my reactions...it gets me kinda hot. I think he'd like it too
I think I'll probably try it, but I don't want him to be sitting on a chair across the room or anything, or me to feel totally exposed. But I think that having him lie beside me on the bed, with maybe a sheet or something light over us, that would make it a little more intimate and I wouldn't be so weirded out by the idea.
I always thought that too.. that it would be weird. But I went quite a while without a serious boyfriend and i got quite familiar with masturbating. A bunch of my guy friends would always ask me if I needed help and when I would say I was taking care of things just fine, they would always ask if they could watch. That's when I decided to do it the next time I was with a guy to see if it really was that big of a deal to see a woman do it.. from then on I like to do it.. as I posted above, the guy I am with now tells me he could get off just by watching me is how much it turns him on
Long time reader, first time poster... thought I'd throw in my two cents.
I've personally never felt weird about masturbating in front of a guy. My boyfriend loves it when I do, and I love that he loves it so I'll keep on doing it.
That being said, however, my boyfriend has also never made a big deal about it. The first time I did it for him, he just brought it up casually, in the heat of the moment if I would mind doing it for him, and at that moment, I didn't.
I do think, though, that it would be a big deal to me if the guy made it seem so. If he brought it up BEFORE the actual moment, then things may be different...
well, i think i would do it in front of my bf. it would - though have to be a loving caring and intimate relationship where there is not un-comfortable-ness existing. mabe even taking turns..that could be fun...be doing it in fornt of each other, you can learn what the other likes.. he can watch you..see what you like..you can watch him and see what he likes...maybe a little educational..
I don't really find mastrubating in front of, or at the same time as, my boyfriend a turn on and neither does he. But, that isn't to say that if ever asked me to I wouldn't, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I'm very comfortable doing it for my man.The idea for me is to make it as sensual as can be so he really enjoys himself. Creating the right atmosphere makes it even more special. When alone, I probably get right down to business, but when I do it for him I add a lot more special touches. I should add that when he is watching me I do not allow him to touch and it drives him crazy. I'll also add that I enjoy watching him too!
after 10 yrs. of marriage we went on a long road trip w/out child. We bought some really raunchy mags to read for entertainment on the road. Late in the afternoon i was sleepy so i climbed in the back seat and started to read to him while he was driving. Well the article was quite steamy and I found my panties all wet. Started touching myself under my blanket and told him that since i could not see what he was doing up front to go ahead and join in. We both ended up masturbating to a story in a magazine and laughed till we cried! What else can i say? May have taken a long time to get to this point but it sure was exciting once it happened.
I love to masturbate in front of my boyfriend and he loves to watch me. I like to watch him too so we often do it simoutaneously. I like to see what feels good for him.
[QUOTE=Quote (vette1963 @ Oct. 30 2002,07:02)]Women: do you mind masturbating in front of your partner?IF yes? Why If no. How do you do it?[/QUOTE]
A few times I have, because it turns him on a little and sometimes you need that little boost to get there quicker.
I don't masturbate in front of my boyfriend... He hasn't asked, I havn't offered... I would feel awkward doing it in front of him knowing that he's watching...
Granted, since I'm sorta new to this whole relationship business and I'd never had a boyfriend before my current man... I really wanted to see him masturbate *shrugs* he did it a little but he felt too self conscious too, which is why I guess he hasn't asked me to do it in front of him since he dosn't feel right masturbating in front of me
I do not mind at all touching myself in front of a guy I have been seeing for a while. I sort of put on a show for him and he enjoys it a lt. I understood the question but what was the part about how do you do it?
wow that last post was a little rude. I don't think that girls post was about incorrect spelling, but just the way they type on the internet.
Secondly, there are ENDLESS amounts of ways to masturbate, not just fingering in and out. I masturbate every single day of my life, and have only ever masturbated by actually fingering internally about three times, so there you go!
[QUOTE=Quote (uncreativename @ May 01 2005,08:03)]eek my bf suggested it to me cuz he cnt make me orgasm....but i still am uncomfortable with it...i keep worrying he'll think my way of doing it's weird or sumthing!! i normally do it lying face down so i cnt show him properly lying on my bak... [/QUOTE]
ok, first of all, how the hell do you masturbate lying face down?! what a bad angle! doesn't your arm hurt?
secondly, there is no "weird' way to masturbate. you stick your finger in and out wooohoo. there's really just not many variations lol.
ps - if you dont mind me asking, how old are you?
pps- does anyone else think perhaps kids should learn how to spell before learning to f***? ah well.
To be honest, masturbation in front of him is a tease thingy. It is a fluffing device if you will. Oh yes I enjoy doing it but the point is really to tease or foreplay. Now using my hands on him is another story all together. This is more of a power thing. I am in full control of his emotions. Now mutual masturbartion ios just foreplay. sex is the only way to go unless you are in a place that a handy is handy. Wink, wink.
I've masturbated in front of a boyfriend, but I always feel like it's a show for him and not anything sexually pleasing for me. I enjoy turning him and always do so willingly, but it is definitely not what gets me off.
[QUOTE=Quote (kittenesque @ Nov. 09 2002,09:24)]Try masturbating in front of your girlfriend and see how awkward YOU feel...
Besides, why would i masturbate while i've got my boyfriend ( and his two spare hands) there... doing nothing?![/QUOTE]
I have masterbated in front of my wife while she watched and she loves it wheb I cum on her tits.
Watching my girl masturbate is the biggest turn on for me. sometimes i get outta the shower and she will be siting there with her fingers down there workin away and im instantly erect.. ill just sit a watch for a few min playin with myself as well then she tells me she wants me and i just have to jump in!! MMM its GRaTE!!
I've been having a lot of fun doing it on Camera with total strangers. It's been very exciting to find guys on sites like adult friend finder and ichatnaked. Best part is that I never have to see them again.
I think on some levels, at least in my case, there's a sort of teasing element to simply watching each other masturbate, that's both aggravating and exciting. Keeping our hands off each other for just a few moments makes me want to touch my girlfriend even more, and it's just a thrill that makes for a nice little addition to other forms of foreplay and fun.
But I have to agree, mutual touching and foreplay, much better. It's just a little spice that makes life (in the bedroom) so damn interesting.
i would definately let my b/f watch me masturbate. it can be rather interesting. do a little foreplay to get me nice and wet and excited, then have him move just far enough away from me to where he can watch but not to touch. gets me more excited and him harder. he loves it, then when i cum he can touch all he wants.
Yea i agree with most people i think if he was just laying there doing nothing just watching me that would be a little odd but if we are into something and i just gradually start doing it ..it would be hott for both of us..
I love masturbating in front of guys, my current Boyfriend however has never watched me do it yet, he says he doesnt want to put any pressure on me, but I really want to. I see my Boyfriend every day, and right now we have a tradition of were we watch a movie togeather every day. we are watching 'tremors 3' tomorrow, and today we had amazing sex while watching 'tremors 2' so I think I might try to get his attention tomorrow and show him what I can do, and of course invite him to join. I love watching men masturbate, it is so increadably sexy! such a turn on.
I love the thought of masturbating for my boyfriend, i love turning him on, but he's a really shy person, and i'm not sure whether it would turn him on, or just freak him out. Any suggestions?
Sometimes during foreplay I would just reach down while he was fingering me, and help him out. Just adding another helping hand
And I knew how much it turned him on, his watching me play with myself. So, naturally just turned me on, even more.
I don't have a boyfriend atm, but i absolutely love masturbating in front of the guy i'm with. I masturbate a lot as it is so i guess it just feels natural to me. I love the fact that he loves it so much and i like watching him masturbate also. this is making me want a b/f all this chit chat.
eek my bf suggested it to me cuz he cnt make me orgasm....but i still am uncomfortable with it...i keep worrying he'll think my way of doing it's weird or sumthing!! i normally do it lying face down so i cnt show him properly lying on my bak...
[QUOTE=Quote (kittenesque @ Nov. 09 2002,06:24)]Try masturbating in front of your girlfriend and see how awkward YOU feel...[/QUOTE]
I have done this and at first it was difficult to cum, but I find that now it is a big turn-on. The best thing for me is for her to take my member into her mouth and put lots of 'lube' (her saliva) on it, and then I get to work. Knowing that it is her 'lube' turns me on a lot.
She likes for me to straddle her when I do this so she can get the best view and so I can cum on her chest, which is something she enjoys a lot.
I know what you mean cajdi. The thought of someone watching me masterbate whether it be in person, on video, or otherwise definately gets me in the mood.
I agree and I think more couples should masterbate together. It's a very erotic experience. Sometimes watching me masterbate is just what my boyfriend needs to get in the mood.
I love masterbating in front of my boyfriend because it's a really big turn on for both of us. Sometimes we'll masterbate together. It gets me really hot watching him stroking himself when I'm right beside him doing the same. Something else we do is "help" each other masterbate. For example I'll sit in front of him and he'll lean over my shoulder and watch while he kisses my neck and plays with my boobs. I find all of this very erotic.
I'll also masterbate during sex at times. Clitoral or nipple stimulation during sex is just amazing.
Well, i don't mind masturbating in front of him, but i usually do it while he is busy with other parts (of me). I wouldn't just sit there in front of him doing it while he watched, it seems too... dunno. i just wouldn't feel comfortable. And plus masturbating by myself doesn't turn me on anyways.
I don't mind masterbating in front of my boyfriend at all. In fact, it can be really fun for the two of us to masterbate together. However, having him around can be a little distracting, so it tends to take me longer to reach orgasm.
Try masturbating in front of your girlfriend and see how awkward YOU feel...
Besides, why would i masturbate while i've got my boyfriend ( and his two spare hands) there... doing nothing?!
my girl loves to masterbate in front of me,and i love it aswell!its normally after she has striped for me and teased me,and thts wht turns her on,but its only a matter of minuets till i join in,coz i cant resist!!!!!
I wouldnt just masturbate in front of him, i find it weird, but during sex, sometimes i will do it.
I agree with the last post.. during sex and I have no problem with it at all really. The last guy I was with always told me it was his biggest turn on to watch a girl. While we were doing the deed I reached down and started doing my thing at the same time. he told me while we were in mid-business how much he liked it. I don't know why, but unlike most girls, I don't mind masturbating in front of a guy. I do it all the time when I'm alone thinking about him, so why wouldn't I share what I like and want him to do to me?
Recently he was working on me and I went down to help him a little. He took his hand away and started working in other places while watching and talking dirty. I LOVED it! I was already wet because of him and it was so nice. I even remember saying I probably wouldn't like it in a conversation the previous day. Boy was I wrong!
I when my b/f talks dirty, it turns me on so much.
when my b/f and I first started having sex I was shy about touching myself in front of him, but now I sometimes do it and not even realize it. my b/f will even stop sometimes just to watch me... he says its a real turn on. we've never actually just masturbated and watched each other do it though, I don't think I could stand it him being there and not touching me
My man loves to watch me masterbate and I like that it turns him on. He says he loves to see how pink I am and how moist it gets. He says that he doesn't get such a good view of my
vagina during intercourse and appreciates just being able to
watch and admire.
i done it for the first time last night(out of personal reasons
and it seams he got horny even more,on that...so i don´t know...i don´t prefer to do it but for me it is not stranage at all 
My to-be boyfriend (long story) once asked if I'd ever do it infront of him, and I was like, "hell no" but that was because I never masturbated. Well, since then I've started to, so I know what I like, so when we're together I can let him know where to go and such...and actually, now that I've started using a vibrator, the idea of exploring myself and having him see my reactions...it gets me kinda hot. I think he'd like it too
I think I'll probably try it, but I don't want him to be sitting on a chair across the room or anything, or me to feel totally exposed. But I think that having him lie beside me on the bed, with maybe a sheet or something light over us, that would make it a little more intimate and I wouldn't be so weirded out by the idea.
my girl was thinkin about it. shes too scared. she says that it would be uncomfortable.
I always thought that too.. that it would be weird. But I went quite a while without a serious boyfriend and i got quite familiar with masturbating. A bunch of my guy friends would always ask me if I needed help and when I would say I was taking care of things just fine, they would always ask if they could watch. That's when I decided to do it the next time I was with a guy to see if it really was that big of a deal to see a woman do it.. from then on I like to do it.. as I posted above, the guy I am with now tells me he could get off just by watching me is how much it turns him on
Long time reader, first time poster... thought I'd throw in my two cents.
I've personally never felt weird about masturbating in front of a guy. My boyfriend loves it when I do, and I love that he loves it so I'll keep on doing it.
That being said, however, my boyfriend has also never made a big deal about it. The first time I did it for him, he just brought it up casually, in the heat of the moment if I would mind doing it for him, and at that moment, I didn't.
I do think, though, that it would be a big deal to me if the guy made it seem so. If he brought it up BEFORE the actual moment, then things may be different...
well, i think i would do it in front of my bf. it would - though have to be a loving caring and intimate relationship where there is not un-comfortable-ness existing. mabe even taking turns..that could be fun...be doing it in fornt of each other, you can learn what the other likes.. he can watch you..see what you like..you can watch him and see what he likes...maybe a little educational..
Personally, I'd rather do it for her than watch....
I don't really find mastrubating in front of, or at the same time as, my boyfriend a turn on and neither does he. But, that isn't to say that if ever asked me to I wouldn't, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I'm very comfortable doing it for my man.The idea for me is to make it as sensual as can be so he really enjoys himself. Creating the right atmosphere makes it even more special. When alone, I probably get right down to business, but when I do it for him I add a lot more special touches. I should add that when he is watching me I do not allow him to touch and it drives him crazy. I'll also add that I enjoy watching him too!
after 10 yrs. of marriage we went on a long road trip w/out child. We bought some really raunchy mags to read for entertainment on the road. Late in the afternoon i was sleepy so i climbed in the back seat and started to read to him while he was driving. Well the article was quite steamy and I found my panties all wet. Started touching myself under my blanket and told him that since i could not see what he was doing up front to go ahead and join in. We both ended up masturbating to a story in a magazine and laughed till we cried! What else can i say? May have taken a long time to get to this point but it sure was exciting once it happened.
I love to masturbate in front of my boyfriend and he loves to watch me. I like to watch him too so we often do it simoutaneously. I like to see what feels good for him.
[QUOTE=Quote (vette1963 @ Oct. 30 2002,07:02)]Women: do you mind masturbating in front of your partner?IF yes? Why If no. How do you do it?[/QUOTE]
A few times I have, because it turns him on a little and sometimes you need that little boost to get there quicker.
Yes, its very cool for both of us.
I don't masturbate in front of my boyfriend... He hasn't asked, I havn't offered... I would feel awkward doing it in front of him knowing that he's watching...
Granted, since I'm sorta new to this whole relationship business and I'd never had a boyfriend before my current man... I really wanted to see him masturbate *shrugs* he did it a little but he felt too self conscious too, which is why I guess he hasn't asked me to do it in front of him since he dosn't feel right masturbating in front of me
I do not mind at all touching myself in front of a guy I have been seeing for a while. I sort of put on a show for him and he enjoys it a lt. I understood the question but what was the part about how do you do it?
wow that last post was a little rude. I don't think that girls post was about incorrect spelling, but just the way they type on the internet.
Secondly, there are ENDLESS amounts of ways to masturbate, not just fingering in and out. I masturbate every single day of my life, and have only ever masturbated by actually fingering internally about three times, so there you go!
[QUOTE=Quote (uncreativename @ May 01 2005,08:03)]eek my bf suggested it to me cuz he cnt make me orgasm....but i still am uncomfortable with it...i keep worrying he'll think my way of doing it's weird or sumthing!!
i normally do it lying face down so i cnt show him properly lying on my bak... 
[/QUOTE]
ok, first of all, how the hell do you masturbate lying face down?! what a bad angle! doesn't your arm hurt?
secondly, there is no "weird' way to masturbate. you stick your finger in and out wooohoo. there's really just not many variations lol.
ps - if you dont mind me asking, how old are you?
pps- does anyone else think perhaps kids should learn how to spell before learning to f***? ah well.
To be honest, masturbation in front of him is a tease thingy. It is a fluffing device if you will. Oh yes I enjoy doing it but the point is really to tease or foreplay. Now using my hands on him is another story all together. This is more of a power thing. I am in full control of his emotions. Now mutual masturbartion ios just foreplay. sex is the only way to go unless you are in a place that a handy is handy. Wink, wink.
I've masturbated in front of a boyfriend, but I always feel like it's a show for him and not anything sexually pleasing for me. I enjoy turning him and always do so willingly, but it is definitely not what gets me off.
[QUOTE=Quote (kittenesque @ Nov. 09 2002,09:24)]Try masturbating in front of your girlfriend and see how awkward YOU feel...
Besides, why would i masturbate while i've got my boyfriend ( and his two spare hands) there... doing nothing?![/QUOTE]
I have masterbated in front of my wife while she watched and she loves it wheb I cum on her tits.
Watching my girl masturbate is the biggest turn on for me. sometimes i get outta the shower and she will be siting there with her fingers down there workin away and im instantly erect.. ill just sit a watch for a few min playin with myself as well then she tells me she wants me and i just have to jump in!! MMM its GRaTE!!
Shadow Man
wow, whats your msn then block if you want but id like to watch.... crazy girls masterbating on camera....you not got a bf to keep you happy?
I've been having a lot of fun doing it on Camera with total strangers. It's been very exciting to find guys on sites like adult friend finder and ichatnaked. Best part is that I never have to see them again.
I think on some levels, at least in my case, there's a sort of teasing element to simply watching each other masturbate, that's both aggravating and exciting. Keeping our hands off each other for just a few moments makes me want to touch my girlfriend even more, and it's just a thrill that makes for a nice little addition to other forms of foreplay and fun.
But I have to agree, mutual touching and foreplay, much better. It's just a little spice that makes life (in the bedroom) so damn interesting.
i would definately let my b/f watch me masturbate. it can be rather interesting. do a little foreplay to get me nice and wet and excited, then have him move just far enough away from me to where he can watch but not to touch. gets me more excited and him harder. he loves it, then when i cum he can touch all he wants.
Yea i agree with most people i think if he was just laying there doing nothing just watching me that would be a little odd but if we are into something and i just gradually start doing it ..it would be hott for both of us..
I love masturbating in front of guys, my current Boyfriend however has never watched me do it yet, he says he doesnt want to put any pressure on me, but I really want to.
I see my Boyfriend every day, and right now we have a tradition of were we watch a movie togeather every day. we are watching 'tremors 3' tomorrow, and today we had amazing sex while watching 'tremors 2' so I think I might try to get his attention tomorrow and show him what I can do, and of course invite him to join. I love watching men masturbate, it is so increadably sexy! such a turn on.
I love the thought of masturbating for my boyfriend, i love turning him on, but he's a really shy person, and i'm not sure whether it would turn him on, or just freak him out. Any suggestions?
Sometimes during foreplay I would just reach down while he was fingering me, and help him out. Just adding another helping hand
And I knew how much it turned him on, his watching me play with myself. So, naturally just turned me on, even more.
I don't have a boyfriend atm, but i absolutely love masturbating in front of the guy i'm with. I masturbate a lot as it is so i guess it just feels natural to me. I love the fact that he loves it so much and i like watching him masturbate also. this is making me want a b/f all this chit chat.
eek my bf suggested it to me cuz he cnt make me orgasm....but i still am uncomfortable with it...i keep worrying he'll think my way of doing it's weird or sumthing!!
i normally do it lying face down so i cnt show him properly lying on my bak... 
[QUOTE=Quote (kittenesque @ Nov. 09 2002,06:24)]Try masturbating in front of your girlfriend and see how awkward YOU feel...[/QUOTE]
I have done this and at first it was difficult to cum, but I find that now it is a big turn-on. The best thing for me is for her to take my member into her mouth and put lots of 'lube' (her saliva) on it, and then I get to work. Knowing that it is her 'lube' turns me on a lot.
She likes for me to straddle her when I do this so she can get the best view and so I can cum on her chest, which is something she enjoys a lot.
Well I guess that would mean I'm kinky too because I'd love to do something like that. And I also love being the one with the cum on my chest.
I love watching ladies do that. And doing it togeather is so good. There isn't much that is more erotic.
Yep. Mutual masturbation is great!
I know what you mean cajdi. The thought of someone watching me masterbate whether it be in person, on video, or otherwise definately gets me in the mood.
i think i'm getting in the mood!
I agree and I think more couples should masterbate together. It's a very erotic experience. Sometimes watching me masterbate is just what my boyfriend needs to get in the mood.
OMG!!! Masturbation is so HOT together!!!!! Definatly a do for couples. Very erotic and safe!
Couple who play together stay together!
I love masterbating in front of my boyfriend because it's a really big turn on for both of us. Sometimes we'll masterbate together. It gets me really hot watching him stroking himself when I'm right beside him doing the same. Something else we do is "help" each other masterbate. For example I'll sit in front of him and he'll lean over my shoulder and watch while he kisses my neck and plays with my boobs. I find all of this very erotic.
I'll also masterbate during sex at times. Clitoral or nipple stimulation during sex is just amazing.
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