Hi all, i just found this board and need some help please.
A few month ago i started experience squirting orgasms/female ejaculation.
It happens during the penetration and i can go and go, I have many many orgasms and ejaculate many time. My bf is very excited with my new ability and i feel happy with this new sensation too and like a new woman BUT having some hang ups about body smells/cleanness I paranoidly check sheets and towels after and I do notice urine smell/trace.
I've done a lot of readings on the net about FE and it seems like i have what is described there, I can find my g-spot now as easy as i can find my clit. It does not feel same as peeing, and it makes me feel really dehydrated and dizzy. The quantity is large, i have to use waterproof blankets because towels will be soaked thru. Well there is no way that i can pee that much, I use bathroom before sex and never had problem with urinating during sex and in general i have an excellent bladder control but our lovemaking sessions are long. I am so scared to turn my bf off if he notice it too.
I would like to know if anyone else experienced the same, seems like my ejaculation fluids mix with urine and everywhere i read it say it should not smell like urine at all. And is there is a way to prevent urine leakage? :confused:
thanks!
Just be certain you are clean prior...and get the bed mats which repel fluids....
Hydrate! You are NOT drinking enough water during the day. What you smelled was not a trace fo urine -it was concentrated ejaculate. Yes I know it sounds counter-intuitive but that is the issue here. Proper hydration will also prevent the dizziness afterwards.
I know it's cheating, but I don't like typing the entire explanation so I looked it up here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation
Basically it might contain similar properties as urine, but it's only in small amounts. Don't be embarrassed, it's a natural thing. Hell, some guys might take it as a compliment if they can achieve that reaction. I've made a few women do it, mostly through oral, but that could be just because that's my preferred method.
I say have fun and try it yourself in a bathtub until you get more comfortable. If the tub's big enough, invite him to join.
Does the FE orgasm feel better then say the usual type? My g/f squirted twice now during our fun and before then it had never happened. The first time was after we were having intercourse and building it up taking it slowly, then switched to doggy and she just shot out a big amount all at once. She said it wasnt as intense as other orgasms that I give her and that it felt weird. I was thinking that maybe because it is new to her she doesnt enjoy the feeling all the way? I felt sorta proud to make her squirt but I prefer the full body shaking orgasms. So is the squirt greater then most other orgasms?
Bluetide - YES it is better than normal orgasms once she's gotten her mind around the concept. Not that regular orgasms are bad you understand.
Ah that's what I thought. I think the worry about it feeling like she peed startled her and caused it to not feel as good. I knew right away it was a squirt and she enjoyed the orgasm but she seems to enjoy the slow built up ones where she is dying for me to let her release. Those and the gspot/oral ones set her off very hard. Thx EEK
Thresher gave you a very good link. Read it thoroughly. Recognize that medical researchers really do not understand female ejaculation. Those who are eager to testify about the wonders of female ejaculation do not always understand the anatomy and physiology of a woman's genito-urinary system.
For some women (less than 10%) ejaculation is a regular event and in these women, the fluid is not urine but a female equivalent of liquid semen. Then another 10% or so of women experience this once in a while. Still female equivalent of semen. We do recognize, however, that many women do sometimes pee during orgasm. I have - not often, but it has happened. I have never experienced ejaculation, nor have anty of my female partners. I have never actually encountered the fluid associated with female ejaculation.
The amount of fluid you are describing is far in excess of what could possibly be produced and stored in the Skene's Glands - the most likely source of female ejaculation. That could only account for one to two tablespoonfuls. The Glands of Bartholin, by the vaginal entrance, could produce no more than a teaspoonful and it would be very viscuous and waxy. My guess is that you are a squirter but you also release urine. The secretions of neither of the Glands (Skene''s or Bartholin) would smell like urine. You can be certain there is some in there if it smells like urine. Moreover, given the amount you report, the bladder is the only place in your lower abdomen that can produce that much liquid.
While you say there is no way you could pee that much, there is no other liquid in lower abdomen that is present in greater quantity than urine. Once again, I am recommending that you start with uyour gyn and, perhaps, a referral to a urologist who specializes in women. I do have patients who lose bladder control during orgasm. Most doctors have encountered this but it takes a specialist to address the issue.
Thanks everybody for your replies! It helps.
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The amount of fluid you are describing is far in excess of what could possibly be produced and stored in the Skene's Glands - the most likely source of female ejaculation. That could only account for one to two tablespoonfuls. The Glands of Bartholin, by the vaginal entrance, could produce no more than a teaspoonful and it would be very viscuous and waxy. My guess is that you are a squirter but you also release urine. The secretions of neither of the Glands (Skene''s or Bartholin) would smell like urine. You can be certain there is some in there if it smells like urine. Moreover, given the amount you report, the bladder is the only place in your lower abdomen that can produce that much liquid.
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I am not a doctor but how can my bladder make so much in such a short time. I use bathroom before and after and i do still have some more left. It does feel a bit slippery too... I read somewhere that those Glands can produce fluid while stimulated and the large amounts are not uncommon... Interesting where is comes from... :eek:
[QUOTE=bluetide76;206923]Does the FE orgasm feel better then say the usual type? My g/f squirted twice now during our fun and before then it had never happened. The first time was after we were having intercourse and building it up taking it slowly, then switched to doggy and she just shot out a big amount all at once. She said it wasnt as intense as other orgasms that I give her and that it felt weird. I was thinking that maybe because it is new to her she doesnt enjoy the feeling all the way? I felt sorta proud to make her squirt but I prefer the full body shaking orgasms. So is the squirt greater then most other orgasms?[/QUOTE]
Clitoral orgasms do feel more intense to me but those are more fun also the fact that i can do it "like a man", just from penetration. :)
I started to experience ejaculation in smaller amounts first during sex without orgasm and then i started to get orgasms but there were not very intense at first but they get stronger and stronger overtime. The cool thing is i can have between 10-20 (who counts lol) during our lovemaking session and many with "squirts" depends on position and the sensation of releasing fluid is new and different and feels great. I got so addicted to that, its like a drug, ones you start you want it more and more and i don't want to come in any other way now but i would say you need to have right set of mind to enjoy it. :p
http://www.doctorg.com/female-woman-orgasm/female-g-spot-experiment-5.htm
Some more info about an experiment done 10 years ago.
wow, that link is great and now it makes perfect sense, many thanks!
It's coming from bladder.... I hope men still find it hot though ;)
[QUOTE=Thresher_V;206963]http://www.doctorg.com/female-woman-orgasm/female-g-spot-experiment-5.htm
Some more info about an experiment done 10 years ago.[/QUOTE]
Well I do, but I'm very high on the Kinky Minded List. Just make sure he's aware that you might do that, so he won't be too startled.
[quote=Thresher_V;206970]Well I do, but I'm very high on the Kinky Minded List. Just make sure he's aware that you might do that, so he won't be too startled.[/quote]Foley Cath insertion in women is far from pleasant or pleasing sexually! UGHHHH. You have to pass a valve to get to the badder and it hurts. The only pleasant experience is non-voiding (or reflex voiding)secondary to anesthesia..the bladder is so full it hurts and any release of the urine is welcomed. I have threatened to use a straw if needed post-op...to rid the pain.:eek:
Additionally bladder fullness can be caused for several reasons...how much fluid you consumed in the past few hours. Or you may just have a smaller bladder...they can be stretched.
just wanted to post some updates because things got "better". Perhaps someone will find that information helpful too.
I found that the key is to be totally relaxed, it makes a difference. Sometimes before i felt like I needed to push a bit to experience FE during orgasm. As i get more experienced, it is happening more and more naturally, also using a bathroom right before and during long sessions helps.
:)
Read the link. Something is dreadfully wrong with it. An altered form of urine? Uh-huh. What was the sample size? Seven women. Okay. Now for the methodology - samples were taken ONLY from the catheter. What the hell?
"The purpose of the catheter was to effectively segregate the bladder from the urethra and collect vaginal expulsions in a controlled, medically supervised environment."
You cannot separate the bladder from the urethra, that is the catheter is inserted up the urethra to the bladder. The vagina is another thing entirely.
Samples were ONLY taken from the catheter!
OMG! of course all you're going to get is urine! Jeez!
Nowhere does he mention taking samples from the vagina itself. All the author talks about re: the vagina is stimulating the G-Spot.
Check out the author. What's this? Ed.D -isn't that a Doctorate in Education?
So why is an educator talking about a medical issue?
Let us review:
1. too small of a sample size
2. grossly inept methodology
3. seems totally confused about anatomy
4. not in the author's field of expertise
Conclusion, bogus.
Miss Kiss it isn't urine. It is just the vaginal glands (Skene's?) releasing the fluid all at once rather than gradually as they normally would to ensure the health of the vagina. It is a complex carbohydrate. Amounts will vary. There can be a LOT of it.
That may not be pee but a part of the female ejaculation that smells like pee. Do not be ashamed of it since it's a part of the game. Instead, be proud that you have it because not all girls could be satisfied that much. :)
Ahh this clears up much for me!! I thought I urinated myself!! Haha
You have to scrutinize your information carefully. Esp when it conflicts with your own empirical evidence.