Body hair is a very personal issue (just look at the mixed reactions to under arm hair) and affects both male and female. As such it is very difficult to determine the reaction someone will have towards you. That said, I agree with EEK in that if this guys really likes you he will "look past" the body hair issue if this bothers him! If you are in a relationship built on trust and communication he will be able to tell you if it bothers him and you can then, together, seek remedial action.

I would not recommend going at body hair with a razor due to the grow back factor and thick stubble could be regarded as more unsightly then soft hair, rather look into the options of waxing (could become part of your pre sex preperation.....not for me thanks as I cannot bear the possibility of inflicting that pain on my SO) or the lazer therapy.

Better yet, there are lasers for more permanent solutions. But if the male likes you for you, he'll accept you as you are.

That's what razors and wax are for.

you should first tell him about your concerns and then talk about it if nothing else. then when your ready show him your problem areas and if he doesnt like it then you have a few options. you should either shave/wax your places or if he likes it then leave it the way it is. or just trim it. most guys dont mind timmed.