Ever licked or sucked on a popsicle?
That's all you need to know.

Further refinements are based upon what guidance your bf gives you.

EEK is exactly right -- sex is best when it is played by two people who communicate with each other. In fact that is the only way to true pleasure. Start out and ask your bf to guide you. If you are afraid of the taste of cum, tell him. If he cares about you he can tell you when to back off.

Oh, don't forget that when it comes to pleasuring a woman, your bf may be as clueless as you are -- talk to him, demonstrate, learn from each other

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I highly recommend following Dancing Doc's advice. Read the posts on the subject and then let's discuss your questions about what has already been said.

But you can't be too eager or too aggressive about it as some men might get 'concerned'. I had to growl at one fellow before he stopped trying to protect his virtue.

I would way the absolute most important thing is to show that you want to do it and are eager for it. The easiest turnoff is to appear bored or grossed out, or that it's a chore. all the technique in the world can't compensate for being huffed about it. :)

I agree with Firmus, that the fastest way to ruin a bj, is to make it seem like you're doing a chore

The best bj, I ever got was from a fwb recently and involved so much more than just what you would consider the usual bj activity. Find a comfy spot between his feet and really get into it physically and emotionally. Use lots of tongue and pay attention to the entire area, including his testicles and the skin on his thighs. Give him slight nibbles along his legs and testicles and tease the penis with your lips and tongue before going in for the big act. With practice, you can also gauge how close he is to orgasm by the tension in his pelvis and legs. Take the time to really enjoy the entire act. If your mouth gets tired just place it around the head and apply pressure while stroking him with your hand. When he is ready to orgasm (if you're going to finish him orally) take your hand and cup it under his testicles and apply gentle pressure between his testicles and anus. This stimulated the prostate indirectly and can cause his orgasm to be a bit more "explosive" that usual. If you don't want to finish orally, don't just stop and make him fuck you. Let him know where you want him to cum. Said in the right tone of voice this will be sexy to him no matter where you want it. Of course to more guys at this point they won't care where it is, because you took the time to fully pleasure him without him having to focus on you for a few minutes. Of course once he's done, be sure to let him know in no uncertain (and explicit) terms that you expect him to return the favor in one way or another

Good Luck !

[QUOTE=Georgi;272193]My apologies for posting a board that I would imagine pops up quite a lot, but rather than post on those boards, I'm kinda hoping for some advice specifically directed at me, please?

Ok, so, I've recently decided I want to give my new boyfriend a blow job... However, I'm ridiculously inexperienced with fellatio and sooo many questions arise from this new urge.

I've never given "head" before and I'm hoping you guys (and girls) could possibly offer some tips?

I've been reading up, a lot, about this and some of the things sound a little unappealing. Apparently some girls hate the taste - I know there are ways around this: certain lubes, flavoured condoms, changing his diet, etc etc... But I'd quite like to just surprise him and may not necessarily have anything like that with use.
Also, I'm worried about giving him a bad blow job. I've heard of some girls giving really "toothy" blow jobs, or generally just bad ones.
I know the first time for a lot of things are generally a bit useless, but I wouldn't want to immediately put him off it... Or myself for that matter.

Could you guys kindly give a newbie some pointers please?
Anything and everything you post will be helpful!
I want to blow his mind, heh.

Thanks in advance[/QUOTE]I believe everyone may be a little awkward at first, but like anything else experience will improve what you want to accomplish as long as both of you understand that, not just you but him too.

This one is hard to answer specifically for you because what every man likes is different. This is why EEK is saying that your BF will need to communicate to you what he wants. Some men like it hard and fast, some men don't. Some men might like toothy blow jobs, some men might be scared out of their mind having teeth next to a sensative area.

To give a great blow job you have to look like you are enjoing it... While you have hime in your mouth look up at him and smile, lick him like he he is covered in chocolate and you are licking it all off... it isnt just all about sucking, use you tongue, run t around his head, use your hands too and lots of saliva. And don't forget his balls...give them a soft massage and a lick.
It all takes practice. I use to hate it as my jaw would ache, but by switching from sucking to licking to hand job and back again this doesnt happen and I now love doing it. I love the taste too but I think this is something you need to get use to. You might like like the taste the first time as it is new but don't give up on it...
Enjoy :)

welcome to the forum,

My first time was aqwesome. let me explain. I started watching porn, and they taught me great technigues just by observing. If you want try to use anything edible that tastes good. I would eat a mint before I did and the strenght of the mint helped quite abit. he should help you too, to guide you. licking the tip and kissing and rubbing your lips on his cock makes him excited. nibble just a bit. when you deep throat open your mouth wide to where your teeth are out like your biting an apple, very wide, when it hits the back of your throat it will make you gag alil. try to hold it in, practice makes perfect. for some reason when a guy fucks me in the mouth the back of my throat doesn't feel anything like it misses the part in the back that makes you gag, which is the back of the tongue. Cum could be very salt or plain just imagine eating play do lol or whatever it taste like lol.