I'm new here, and I feel like the mose inexperienced person in the world! :(
Whenever my boyfriend has tried to finger me, I have always felt a very strong sensation like I need to urinate. I read on another page:
Well generally when turned on a great deal and close to orgasim you will feel like you have to pee when your just getting close to orgasim. Another cause of this is from some sort of clitoral stimulation from anything and this is totally normal for all girls.
But......I don't feel turned on, and the sensation I get is almost painful, like there is so much pressure on my bladder. It's rather uncomfortable and I really find it hard to believe that it means I'm close to orgasm! I'm so confused about it, and this is the first serious relationship I've ever been in. My boyfriend thinks I might find it uncomfortable because I'm not used to it....and I also never masturbate, so would that contribute?
Any help would be so greatly appreciated!!
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Not too bad for a beginner. If his finger is up inside your vagina, he is pressing directly against your urethra and that is what is causing the "need to pee." The two of you get some education, here and elsewhere, and then have him do the interesting stuff on the outside. There are no nerve endings in the vagina so most of us could care less if there is anything going on in there. Men will not be convinced of that. Their problem.
Oh ok, I understand.
Thanks alot for that, I'll do a little more research. This website is so helpful, by the way. :)