I was talking to my wife and she told me whenever she is more adventurous in bed, it's because she feels like a dirty girl. So i asked what made her feel dirty, and she really didn't have an answer. She actually told me too that she likes feeling alittle dirty, but really doesn't know what turns her on this way. My question is what are some things I can do to a make a woman feel dirty.
Mon, 09/29/2008 - 07:02
#1
feeling clean never dirty
My guess is that what she means is the feeling of 'being a bad girl'. Doing something a little 'out there' or taboo compared to her typical self that everyone knows. Possibly there's a fetish involved that she's unnerved to share with you. Get her to open up and share with you one or two examples of her 'dirty fantasies'.
It also means that she hasn't entirely explored and accepted her sexuality; else she would have been able to explain it to you.
Doing things I've never done before kinda makes me feel like the adventurous badass girl.
No joke, just yesterday was the first time I'd ever had sex in a vehicle, and just add that to the fact that it was my mother's van [in which she told me not to go 'galavanting around'] and it made me feel badassssssss and dirty and just... damn. Just tops.
So try something you've never really tried before? [but don't make it too off the wall. you still want her to enjoy it yeah?]
It strikes me as somewhat twisted that being "dirty" would be a good thing. Don't you think that having such a desire reflects on your having a "sex is debasing" mindset?
Sigh... It so very unfortunate that people have these ridiculous ideas about sex. Hmmm...
Maybe to fight the obesity epidemic we should develop similar ideas about food? More bulimics, anoxerics and less farmers, but a trimmer population... Hmmm...
Sigh...
Sex dirty. No, pooping is dirty and everyone seems to manage to do that without going into hysterics.
Sigh...