ok when im haveing sex the 1st 2 to 3min feels like im gunna explode then it dies down and doesnt come back until 30-40 mins later is this normal because i can hold it off multiple time before i have to blow.
Sun, 04/10/2011 - 20:01
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Tank, what are you doing during this 30-40 minute time frame?
> i can hold it off multiple time before i have to blow.
Pausing the proceeding is good within reason if you want to prolong things.
What you want to do if your level of arousal has subsided is to pull out and revert back to foreplay activities then once you are back at or near peak, reinsert and continue.
What is not good practice is to stroke (vigorously) and thrust in order to rebuild you level of excitement. If you are doing this then change tactics as noted.
Keep in mind, also, that if you are prolonging intercourse for those 30-40 minutes, most women will not enjoy the ride. Many report that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become SORE, bored, and, tired. If you want to "hang in there" so to speak for an extended period of time, then take periodic breaks, going back and forth between intercourse and foreplay. Now, having said that, keep in mind that good etiquette is to help a woman achieve her orgasm, first--and last, if she wishes, with one or more of yours in between.
If this does not answer your question, please let me know and give specifics.
-doc
Please see thee articles entitled The Program, and The Four Hot Spots found elsewhere in this forum.
she said she enjoys it so i just do what makes her feel good everything i do seems good at least she tells me but i know it does because how much she shakes and cum's.