my first would be with 11inch-yum or ouch or both?

[jennyctfranklin]

hello, im 18 filipina, my boyfriend is american 24 and his 6'2 and has 11inch dick, im 5'4 and my first to have sex would be with him this coming june or july..what i need to know if his 11 will hurt me so much?? or pleasure with his 11??. i love him and i want him to be happy.
since it is my first still a VIRGIN. i still dont know what position would be great.
oh yeah i am still studying, 3rd year college and i dont want to get pregnant yet. what would be the safest way to make him happy.???
please help.

[dancingdoc2]

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Originally Posted by jennyctfranklin

hello, im 18 filipina, my boyfriend is american 24 and his 6'2 and has 11inch dick, im 5'4 and my first to have sex would be with him this coming june or july..what i need to know if his 11 will hurt me so much?? or pleasure with his 11??

I recommend that you read every article listed in the Index. They will provide answers to questions asked, and not yet asked. Knowledge is empowering!

Eleven inches is on the extreme of what is considered "normal". It is important to know that "normal" is a range. That said, a vagina is made to accept most every penis. Should the two of you encounter a problem, then try different positions or variations and learn which positions work best for you. It is not necessary for a man to bury his penis all the way to the pubic mound, so do not be terribly concerned that your vagina has to accept all of him.

As has been said here time and again, it is not the size of the "boat"; rather the motion of the "ocean" that is most important. The size of a man's penis is not what is important, what is is in how he uses it and in learning how to make love physically and emotionally.

i love him and i want him to be happy since it is my first still a VIRGIN.

My recommendation is for the two of you to read each of the articles listed in the Index, either together of separately, then discuss what you have learned, and add the information to what each of you already knows.

i still dont know what position would be great.

The Woman Superior/Cowgirl position is ideal for a couple's first few times. Why? Because it places the woman in control. She knows where P and V are and can deftly bring the two together often saving the man some angst and embarrassment. She can place the tip of the penis alongside the hymen and apply the amount of pressure for insertion that she finds comfortable. Next, comes depth of penetration, angle, and, speed of stroking, all of which she is free to manage and change as necessary.

For more on positions, please click on the site's Home Page. You will find many animated illustrations to consider.

oh yeah i am still studying, 3rd year college and i dont want to get pregnant yet. what would be the safest way to make him happy.???
please help.

First question: If you are not ready to become a mother and to have the future course of your life forever changed, then you must look out for and protect A#1--you. If your boyfriend is not ready to become a father and to have the future course of his life forever changed, then he must look out for and protect A#1--himself. NEVER EVER rely upon your partner for your protection.

A woman should be established on the pill or be using another form of highly reliable form of contraception. A man should always wear a condom. The two of you should use a third form of protection for backup--a spermicide in conjunction with either of the first two. At the very least you should insist on a condom and spermicide.

Second question: How to make him happy? By knowing that making love as with any other aspect of a relationship is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other and in partnership.

I hope this is of help. Please ask this question, again, after the two of you read all of the articles in the Index, and, have looked around the entire venue.

-doc

[Brandye]

Third year college at 18? You are planning six months in advance? What you describe would be in the top 1 percent of all ever measured. With this just in your head, nothing to worry about.

[jennyctfranklin]

Thank you so much....your knowldge is such a big help...

[jennyctfranklin]

to brandeye:
"wat do u mean "What you describe would be in the top 1 percent of all ever measured"

[jessica roy]

almost no human alive has an 11 inch penis without modifaction and even with modifacation its raire. 3rd year college is raire to at 18 but thats not unheard of.

[Brandye]

What I mean, jenny, is very, very few women have ever seen a penis that long.

[jessica roy]

If he does have a REAL 11 inch penis, Plus your a virgin......Plus if he is as proportional thick as long, There is no way as a virgin you could handle that without alot of masterbations. Use LARGE dilldoes and work on expanding and opening yourself. But even then I dont think you have any real hope. Not if you never had anything in you before.

[scottay]

Yeahhhhhh......that is one large dude....my best friend has 9 and his woman said it hurt her for the first 4 months and she wasnt a virgin

[EvilEvilKitten]

If he's skilled, you will have no trouble. If he is NOT skilled then you will have problems. If it hurts, TELL HIM SO. Do not think you have to endure any pain. At his size, he is limited in what he can, and should, do. No anal, for example, and deep-throating is also out. But other than that, you should have few problems.

Forget about "opening yourself up" - what you need is FOREPLAY and BODY WORSHIP to warm you up and to get your engines running.