what to do when she neglect...?

[ravi kumar]

I never had sex but now after 5 yrs of my relation with my gf I want her to be close... Whenever I used to come down and try to fingerd she feel dizzy and say to stop but prior she never stops me to come down to fingered it? What I should to please her

[Brandye]

Only she can answer that question.

[SolaeDehvine]

Yeah, I agree. You have to open the lines of communication and ask her that. But don't speculate and think she is cheating or that she doesn't like you anymore. Just ask her and find out the truth and don't jump to conclusions.

[P14]

Ravi, talk to her. Explain her it is important to you how she feels and you want her to feel good. Something is wrong and you like to know what you can do to get back to the way she was before. Ask her gently. Good luck.

[dancingdoc2]

Please read the articles listed in the Index that discuss the various conditions of the female orgasm, how to stimulate each other with fingers and lips, and, especially the article that discusses communication and feedback (verbal as well as non-verbal).

In addition, please read the articles by EEK, found on page two of the Index.

I urge you to ask your girlfriend to read the articles, also, either with you or independently. As she does, please discuss what you have learned. Knowledge is empowering.