Experienced guy cuming too soon

[Lynneski]

My boyfrined is 31 (and I am 20) and when we have sex he always cums soon. He says he has never had this problem before. It is a problem for me, since he cumes so soon, I never get to an orgasam. What can be done?

[Breedlove]

first off welcome to the forums. Now to the matter at hand I suggest looking into some other forums there's lots of information on this subject I'm sure doc will tell you more on this. Please be patient your questions will be assuringly answered by people who are more expierinced then myself good luck

[wet_suit_one]

First, it's a compliment. You're so hot, he can't help but blow his stack.

Second, many women don't orgasm from penis in vagina intercourse. It may be a matter or manual or oral stimulation to get you off. Of course, maybe you do get off through vaginal intercourse, I don't know. However, if you extend the preliminaries (him munching you longer, nibbling you longer, taking you over the edge once or twice before vaginal intercourse) things may go better.

Finally, maybe he should rub one out before seeing you so he lasts a bit longer. Not advice that should come from you of course, but I'm just saying

Hope that helped a bit and didn't offend to much.

Cheers!

[dancingdoc2]

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[keegle]

The same thing happened to me. I was having sex with a 32 year old, I'm 22, and he literally would go in like 30 seconds. Get him to give you head first so you can have an orgasm. It might also be a good idea get him off before intercourse as well so it will last longer. Hopefully things work out for you two, they did not work out for us. Not just cause he came too fast though. He was actually kind of an asshole.

[mr_romance]

Sometime when the sex is so good and you really into that person, anything can happen. This friend that I know is so beautiful and smell so good, when we made out, I cum so quick. I wanted her to feel what I felt. Beside, she was tight. So, when person is tight, it grips on to your penis and pressure it more as pumped.

Now, she take birth controls. I just cum and keep going at times.

[Venom]

that almost happens to me when i think the girls so beautiful, get on top tell him to close his eyes & concentrate on something not sexual or turn the tv on & he'll get intrested & last longer it usually gives me an extra 20 minutes to my usual 25 minutes

[Gibson52]

Happens to most men (me too). He gets so excited with you, and just can't last any longer. You must be really nice! But try some more foreplay on you, before he penetrates you. Have him use some sexy massage oil all over expecially your inner thighs. This make you feel relaxed & good all over and be more in time with him as far as orgasms. This will help relax you better and then mabye you 2 cum at the same time. Extend the play period till you are both very ready to explode with orgasms. I like Kama Sutra oil of love..great oil..nice smelling. I have some other great personal ideas, if you want, send me a private email. I hope you and your boyfriend enjoy your sex for longer...and you have an orgasm...not just him.