ok so lets say you dont quite feel ready for sex i thought of this way of lets say mutual masturbation that i suppose is much like humping.
the girl graps a pillow between her legs as though she were goind to rub/hump it, the guy lays behind I suppose this would be like the spooning position and AFTER PUTTING A CONDOM ON puts his penis from behind between the vulva and the pillow. At this point either the girl can hump his penis against the pillow or she can hald the pillow while the guy thrusts in and out so in theory if trhinngs match up the tip of his penis will rub her clitoris and infact all of her vulva so lips as well infact I figure this may feel better for the girl than straight intercourse as there will be more attention put on all of her sensitive spots starting fromn the clitoris.
of couse the guy can also reach round and rub her breasts
Any takers, anybody ever tried it
let me know
Not quite mutual masterbation... would probably just be more like dry humping, or actual humping lol. It isn't too far from just acutally doing it.
I have never tried this.. I guess it could work.
Glad you mentiond the condom or everyone would have been going nuts! hahah :)
I'm not sure exactly what the purpose is.
If it's virginity-preservation, it seems that it succeeds only in a highly technical sense, if at all.
If it's supposed to require only "introductory level" skills, it sounds like it accomplishes the opposite.
the only problem is that the male. wearing a condom and the penis not being rubbed to some extent. he wont feel anything. so could be there for hours on end and thus get very boring for both partners.
The only downside. though a condom is required unless conceiving is discussed then i do not see how a lot of pleasure could be had from this for the male.
Though if anyone has done this and wishes to verify?
well my idea was for peoplle that don't quite get off the ground when trying for the first time it could be a good alternative to not be totaly frustrated, it is saffer and is not actually sex but should feel as good infact my take on it is that the girl might get more stimulation this way than with straight intercourse because the clitoris will be stimulated (i think) and the whole vulva perhaps the guys penis will as she get aroused slip in between the lips ?.
Well you see well I'm stuch here in Italy and am going back to england in a couple of months to a girl i really get on great with she came to visit me this summer and the only time we tried sex she was just not up to it (actually she did not tell me she wanted to go as far as sex and took things a bit fast I think but we only had 2 weeks together) and after that my very old fashioned grandmother put her foot down.
Well my take is as soon as I get back to england she will want to try again and in the event it don't go well we could resort to this and still have a great time.
The condom is necesary because the penis is in proximity of the vagina and this deffinitly warants a condom and secondly it is easy to just switch to actual sex while cued up like this as you would already be in the spoon positiion and we don't want any "we got caught up in the moment" exscuses when that period does not come. also for a circumcised guy doing this without couild be painfull at least some lube could also be put in the condom
yea pllease veryfy somebody.
I find that if I masturbate with a condom with a little lube (oil) in it it feels great especially between two pillows. I think if you grind a circumcised guys penis btween a cusion and his partner without anything inbetween it could be painful for him to say the least and really i think the best way is for the guy to pump as he has more movability wile the girl holds the pillow and also has control over the preasure.
The idea of this is if the girl does not feel up to penetration. or it could be satisfactory for couplles not qute ready for sex.
Basically as far as the girl is concered it is no different to rubbing on a pillow as some girls do to masturbate. as for guys it should be like pumping into two pillows so how can this be not very stimulating, granted I've never tried it and will have to wait some time till I can.
I have never tried this, but it doesn't sound like it would feel very good for the girl. I have tried rubbing a penis around the vulva, and honestly it doesn't feel that great. I would rather just engage in regular mutual masturbation, or have sex.
Newtolove, have you tried this technique? If not, why are you suggesting it? I am also a little confused as to why you'd want to do this more than any other regular foreplay.... But hey, if it floats your boat, great!
no takers anybody ? tried it ? do things match up ?
Another form of mutual masturbation, a trifle involved perhaps, but this is an option esp if done from behind. Haven't done this for years but it was mildly fun. Holding her firmly in your arms while fingering her, and vice versa, works better. Focusing solely on the genitals while ignoring the stimulting effects of lying within a man's arms is not a good thing considering the sensitivity of human skin.
oh I am just curious and for some time I won't be able to try it unfortunately :mad: . I just hoped it could perhaps feel good never mind forget I opened my big trap.:D
I've tried something similar to this.
I was in a situation recently where, for some reason, I could only get a partial erection. I'm not sure why that was, possibly due to stress or nervousness at the time. I hadn't had sex or masturbated for quite a while before that, and had very intense feelings, like I was going to climax way too soon.
We tried to have sex in the rear entry position, but I was insufficiently hard to penetrate. Anyway, since I was in the position, I proceeded to go through the motions of sex, with my penis rubbing against her vulva. At the same time, I used my hands to caress her body and fondle her breasts. It felt just as good as if I had penetrated, which was probably due to my previous period of abstinence. She told me that she was really enjoying it too, as she received quite a lot of stimulation this way.
So, would you say that we had sex, or would you call it mutual masturbation? Well, it felt good for both of us, so who cares what its called. And, just for the record, I was wearing a condom.