Slightly off-topic, but if you don't mind sharing the general location of these full contact strip clubs, then please do. To my knowledge they are generally outlawed in the USA.

You would DEFINATELY know. a hand job feels much different. It would be much warmer and softer and feel much more like her mouth than her hand. also, i doubt she would have let you do it without a condom, but she is a stripper that offers to f***, so thats not so good. but if you didnt notice a major change in sensation, chances are youre fine. go get checked out just to be safe, this is a good idea anyways!

[QUOTE=Quote (WorriedNewGuy @ June 22 2005,22:51)]Thanks so much SabrinaLHS8 for your reply

You know what....Your reply was the one I was looking for

"you probably would have noticed if she had you in her cause you would feel this warm sinsation around your penis, its different with hand jobs"

I didn't notice any warm sensation.....In fact, my member was irritated initially by her stroking(Presumably by her handjob)...she stopped and put saliva on and then she started to stroke for another five or ten seconds very hard...I stopped at that point.

In all likelihood its a handjob bcos of following reasons
1. She asked me if I was clean
2. She said she can fu.ck and continued "with condoms of course" ...I replied that I dont wanna fu.ck as I don't have condoms and also told her that I need handjob
3. If my member was in her vagina, she wouldn't have needed spit for lubrication as vaginal fluid might have enuf lubraction..right?
4. I didn't notice any warm feeling
5. I didn't do any thrusting nor felt my member going inside her vagina

Damn, 2 minutes of stupidity spoiling my whole life and peace of mind.[/QUOTE]
2. she won't have gone against what u said. u specified u only wanted a handjob, so u will have got no more.
4. sounds like a handjob to me!
5. if u didnt feel it, it won't have been in her vagina.

also...prostitutes and strippers are regularly HIV checked. if you went to a non-dodgy place, then it's incredibly unlikely she will have HIV or nething. it's part of the clubs' policy that they check the girls.

i guess u've learnt a lesson though, but try and set your mind at ease. the odds that you had sex are really, really slim. i don't think you possibly could have had it. you really would know!

uncreativename

damn theirs no strip clubs down here like that, and like another person said if you payed for a hand job i doubt that you got anything more, unless you were really cute, then i would have also but your most likely a virgin, you probably would have noticed if she had you in her cause you would feel this warm sinsation around your penis, its different with hand jobs

dude, just go to the doctors get some tests run to clear your mind.

Trust me.....if you PAID for a handjob that's all you got! A stripper who offers to have vaginal sex for a fee is really a prostitute...thats said, she's not going to give you more than a handjob.

Thats like thinking you got prime rib when you just ordered a hamburger.

ALso, no matter how dark it was, if you were playing with her tits and she was on here knees stroking your cock.....its really impossible to physically be on here knees and f***ing you at the same time.

Sounds like you learned a lesson!

Look into that and see if there are some legal issues involved with that situation. If you only agreed to a handjob and she had sex with you (without you knowing it) and gave you an STD, I am guesing there would be some legal problems there.

But i think that is very very unlikely. Once again i dont know much about strip clubs but I don't think the strippers would just let random guys cum in them without any protection, unless they were uneducated about the risks of sex.

Also, what do you consider losing your virginity? Having someone's genitals touch your genitals? Or do you actually think that there is an emotional side to it. Because if you believe that losing your virginity is something that happens when its consentual, and when the people involved love eachother, then you did not lose your virginity (if she really did have sex with you.)

-Mariah

I don't know much about strip clubs but if you didn't pay for anything more than a hand job i would doubt she had sex with you.

Besides, in my opinion, even if she did, you would still be a virgin. You didn't choose to and you didn't want her to and you're not even sure if she DID have sex with you. That's kind of like the "rape" thread that we talked about. Just because your penis may have been inside her vagina that doesn't mean that you have lost your virginity.

-Mariah