T and I don't run into this issue. Neither of us can see in the dark, and he's as blind as a bat without his glasses on. I've even tried to have the conversation with him--is there anything special he'd like me to try for him when it comes to undergarments? He has no answer for me other than that he doesn't much care, for the aforementioned reasons.

hey roses yea comfort in skin is very important to me. I like confidance and I dont think I can date a person with a very low opinion of themself and there body. But a nudist lifestyle is not for everyone, and I have datted alot of people that were not nudists. thats fine with me

I was always about variety in most parts of my life clothes included. But also beeing a nudist I would prefer to be with a nudist, and so a person wearing no clothes would be preferable. Still clothes can be very erotic the time spent removing them can be very enjoyable. In that case i would prefer somthing light shaded semi see thru somthing to wet my appetite, but not reveal to much at the same time.

very true roses personaly I dont wear much makeup I prefer a naturel beuty look. Some days I wear none at all. But to be fair I am young and fairly attractive that may get harder to pull off as the years stack up some. I suppose I wil have to see but to me as long as I like how I look what else really matters right? But yea some guys do notice and some guys put alot of effort in themself. But on average I find men kinda clueless about this stuff.

and thanks for the anser on the rep points I thout it stood for representation points lol i was thinking they may give more options ass they add up

Colors? Give me the color of skin! Thank you very much :)

I more care about the feel of the fabric, than I do about color. I like the feel of satin sheets and I love cuddling up against him while he wears a soft cotton shirt. But once it gets past cuddly, all I want is for him to take it all of! :)

@Jessica, I know what you mean. To me he doesn't really need to be a nudist. If he likes sleeping in a T, that's perfectly fine with me :) He just needs to be comfortable in his own skin and let me be that as well. I grew up in a home in which nudity was frowned upon; though not rejected, it did make it uncomfortable enough for me to not dare to sleep naked (even though I very much wanted to!). I don't want to be confronted with such awkwardness in my own house.

I guess that's true in part. But I do believe men can appreciate beauty as well :)
And sometimes it's the trick that you're not supposed to see how much work exactly went in it, or it is "overdone" ;)

Allthough "overdone" can also be put in many ways... I'm amazed by these women that are make-uped to look "natural" and how much stuff they need to put on their faces for that! And it even gets better; some won't get out of the house without this make-up "au natural". Don't get me wrong, I think everyone should chose for themselves what they want to wear. It's just a bit of a funny contradiction ;)

About Rep; I think this clarifies it (copied from the FAQ, in the menu next to UserCP):

[quote]What is reputation?

Reputation is a way of rating users depending on the quality of their posts. If the administrators have enabled reputation, then the reputation icon will be visible in posts.

Reputation may be positive Positive Reputation Icon , negative Negative Reputation Icon or neutral Neutral Reputation Icon. Negative reputation may only be given if the administrator has enabled this. Neutral reputation is only given when the person giving reputation does not meet the criteria set by the administrator to affect someone else's reputation.

How do I give reputation?

To give reputation, click on the reputation icon in the relevant post. This will reveal a form to complete with the reputation type and the reason for giving the reputation. If negative reputation is disabled then it will not be displayed in this form. You may not give reputation for the same post twice.

How do I know what reputation I have received?

You can view the reputation that you have received in your User CP (User Control Panel) where it is displayed at the bottom of the User CP page. Here you will see the latest reputation that you have received and whether this is positive, negative or neutral. Your total reputation will be shown as series of reputation indicators in your posts and profile. The more positive your reputation, the more positive icons will be shown. The more negative your reputation the more negative icons will be shown.

How much reputation is given? What is reputation power?

If the administrator has enabled this, the amount of reputation that each user will give (or take away if negative) is shown in the user's posts as 'Reputation Power'. The value of the reputation power is determined by the administrator and may increase over time depending on the settings they have applied.

What if I don't want anyone to see my reputation?

You can disable the display of your reputation by going to your User CP and selecting Edit Options. On this page you will find a check box labelled 'Show Your Reputation Level'. Un-checking this box will remove the display of your reputation and replace it with the Reputation Disabled icon. You can still give and receive reputation while your reputation display is disabled.[/quote]

Being a guy, I like vibrant, tight fitting underwear on her. Straight Black can be nice too though.

I guess the key is variety! :D

I like when my boyfriend wears cotton boxer briefs in any color, I also l love him in tighty whiteys cause they show off his awesome ass, lol.

I don't really care what my guy wears as long as they haven't got holes in them and aren't baggy everywhere.I like to wear lace underwear particularly french knickers or boyleg briefs.And padded lace bras that enhance my already ample bosom.My favourite colours are black,red,aqua,hot pink and violet.

That's exactly what I thought, Jessica!

I must admit I've asked my bf whether there are things he particularly likes (as a sort of appetizer ;)). But there doesn't seem to be a specific preference... I usually wear thongs, varying from simple skin colored or black, to funny prints and colors, to lace. He likes them all. He generally likes clothes that make me happy. This depends on what I feel like; one day this could be a sporty jumper, the other day an elegant dress, another a T with a short jeansskirt, etc. When I'm feeling good, it glows right through :)

well Roses in my experiance women spend a great deal of time on clothes and makeup and hair. Plus all the accesories and men notice little to none of this. They are generaly more interested in the quickest easiest ways to get the clothes off, then in what we are actually wearing. Or how much time and effort went into perfecting this look. Matching everything creating a makeup style that reflects the clothes we are wearing. I dunno women are much more detailed oriented and men are just not.

PS can anyone tell me what rep points are and what the point of having them is? I just got one and I have no clue what there for or if there is any advantage to them

lol not many men ansering here. Seems guys dont care what a girl is wearing or what color it is. Long as the girl is hot Girls actually care about details and apreaciate some effort.

not too bothard about colour really, though i do like black/pink/red/light blue.
anything lacy is very hot ;) tho do like thongs alot too, but french knickers are sooooo sexy

[color=green]i like for my wife to wear colors that will glow under black light.....we have black lights mounted inside the coves on the ceiling of our bedroom (a little modification i did to the house not too long ago) along with a stripper pole[/color]

my bedroom is allmost wall to wall mirrors lol. I suppose that may sound conceited in a way but I like it. I even have a mirror on the ceiling thats led to some questions before but I think its fairly self explanatory!.

[QUOTE=jessica roy;264702]my bedroom is allmost wall to wall mirrors lol. I suppose that may sound conceited in a way but I like it. I even have a mirror on the ceiling thats led to some questions before but I think its fairly self explanatory!.[/QUOTE]

[color=green]nothing wrong with that....that's coming next, except i can't do every wall because of the windows[/color]

[QUOTE=Qplezsthawife;264706][color=green]nothing wrong with that....that's coming next, except i can't do every wall because of the windows[/color][/QUOTE]

yea there are parts of my room that can have mirrors. Like where bed and desk and such are. But as much of my room as can be coverd by mirrors is.