Well, one of the thing i can think, is to excite him so much that he will have to cum right away, you know, like telling him nasty things in the ear while f***ing, the idea i think is to f*** with mind and body at the same time .
Now, i think you can try to use positions where he can go deep, that always make me cum faster, like doggy style or missionary with your legs high on his shoulders, and while you are at it, try to squiz his penis with your vaginal muscles. I hope any of those ideas work. Good look.

I know his problem quite well... so well in fact that no girl has ever been able to get me off.... having intercourse, it has taken me on average 30 mins if I am solely focusing on my own pleasure...

There is one time that I got off quickly, 4 mins or so, and it was thanks to the excitement... middle of a park in the middle of a day with tons of people around...

I'm not suggesting that as the solution, but excitement is def the problem... try taking him out in public, something a little less public maybe, but just way more exciting... and let me know how it goes

[QUOTE=Quote (cool macs @ Aug. 30 2002,15:40)]I know his problem quite well... so well in fact that no girl has ever been able to get me off.... having intercourse, it has taken me on average 30 mins if I am solely focusing on my own pleasure...There is one time that I got off quickly, 4 mins or so, and it was thanks to the excitement... middle of a park in the middle of a day with tons of people around...I'm not suggesting that as the solution, but excitement is def the problem... try taking him out in public, something a little less public maybe, but just way more exciting... and let me know how it goes [/QUOTE]
30 minutes, how the F**k do you last that long?
please tell

^i.e. make him really horny.

I mean, have you talked to him about this? It might be the case he is withholding ejaculation on purpose, to collect more pleasure tokens. How can he do this? A strong Pubococcygael (PC) muscle will do the trick. Personally I try to go as long as I can before releasing, and sometimes I don't even ejaculate, I just stop and pocket the pleasure tokens I've collected so far, and keep my spermz for later use. See, spermz are really expensive to manufacture, and it is taxing on your body to make them, so in terms of maintaining your overall energy levels it actually makes sense to withhold from ejaculating sometimes. Usually it's better the next time in this case too.

If he's hard, and your pleasuring him, he's probably experiencing quite a bit of pleasure, so there's really nothing to worry about. I mean, quite the opposite, you are lucky to find a guy with high stamina levels, the averages out there are pretty pathetic (maybe not the people on this forum, but for society in general).

[QUOTE=Quote (ilovesex @ Jan. 30 2003,10:24)]30 minutes, how the F**k do you last that long?
please tell[/QUOTE]
It's not too difficult in my experience. If he takes his time on foreplay, eases off as the climax starts to build, changes postion/ depth/angle ... all these help to delay cumming.

She can also help with these techniques too! Also, she can reach down and gently squeeze the base of his penis (underneath) to stop ejaculation.

All these things (and more) can add to his staying power. My b/f can last well over an hour if we work it properly. Even if he goes limp, we just do something else (like oral) till he is ready to keep going.

You should check out ItalStall's post on the Male Orgasm in the New To Sex forum for more info on this.

I would challenge the notion that quicker=better pleasure. The brain has lot to do with how fast & how much pleasure is felt. In fact, the last intimate session I had with my partner lasted a whole 2 hours without ejaculation, BUT... I felt like I had a couple of orgasms and was VERY satisfied. Perhaps his mindset is different from yours. How did he communicate afterwards? Was he pleased? Did you ask him how it felt? Did you express to HIM that you didn't think you were peasing him enough?

Hi,

I'm another guy in the "takes forever to cum" department.

In my case my cock is a little unpredictable - every once in a while it will cum easily, and for no apparent reason (i.e. nothing out of the ordinary or unusual in the sexplay) but 9 times out of 10 any partner tumbling with me has her work cut out to make my cock sing.

You have to understand 2 important things first:

1. This will sound crazy, but it isn't always 100% necessary to cum.
2. Just because a guy doesn't cum easily doesn't mean he isn't enjoying everything you do to or with his cock. It only means that he requires a different stimulation for it to cum.

I offer a few pointers on how I and my partners usually approach sex with my stubborn cock:

1. What's the rush? Try to keep the sex hot, exciting, interesting. Most girls would love a guy that takes too long to cum. Just try to find more ways to fill the time that keep your eyes off the clock!

2. Less frequent sex and masturbation bans. Sounds nuts, but if I have to go without a week or so and abstain from masturbating I cum *reasonably* easily.

3. When you see he's tiring, or feel you're tiring, and he still hasn't cum suggest a BJ, handjob or even a facial. For me cumming in a gals pussy can often be especially hard as the stimulation on my cock - while delicious - simply isn't enough make me cum. I often have a GF blow or jack me to orgasm, or - and this is my favourite way - I'll jack off over her face, into her mouth, over her tits, ass and back, feet - whatever is on offer. This is often the favoured solution because, if we are both tired after a lot of f***ing I can usually jack my cock off to orgasm much faster than she can blow / jack me. Plus she gets to sit/lie/kneel back and enjoy the show  

Ciao!